Anyone else with older children not in any kind of routine with the baby yet? Still feeding on demand and she’s sleeping wherever whenever (usually in the car) but I have to wake her up a lot to fit in with my son’s schedule!
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The guilt I have felt due to this is extreme. Baby wont be put down for a nap so hes barely managing when my toddlers home to sleep longer than 10minutes at a time 😭

Baby's schedule is evolving based on my toddlers. She also is a very different baby and needs to be in bed by 7/730 else is so witchy whereas he was a night owl! I try and do dedicated naps upstairs. Partly because my toddler likes to wake her up "she's awake! She can play!" And also because I want my toddler to know he's still important and I give him 1:1 time
What products and types of Medicine do people recommended ,my little boy is 6 weeks so I know it’s to early but I want to be prepared and have what I need in now for the winter season so I don’t have to then sort it at the time ,anything people recommend for colds ,teething etc

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I know routines are hard at this age but does anyone have somewhat of a structure to their day with their LO? I. E when does LO nap and for how long and when do they go to sleep.
My LO is a bad sleeper with multiple wake ups during the night. I’m really deliberating whether it’s because of the naps he’s having during the day. I usually allow him to have one long contact nap in the morning (to make sure he’s not groggy for the rest of the day) his other naps are usually short and I put him down for them. I also like to hold him for his last nap so he’s not overtired and I can put him down for bedtime easier. He falls asleep anywhere between 7-8:30pm depending on how the day has gone.
Any tips / advice would be v helpful!

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My almost 4 week old doesn’t go down to sleep until 10:30-11pm, she has a few wakes which is fine, but the last block somehow kill’s me off. Her last wake is around 5:30/6am ish and it seems to take me the longest to settle her back to sleep at this hour and by the time I’ve finished my 3.5 year old is ready to talk my ear off at 7am prompt and ofc needs personal care and breakfast.
I’ve been able to rest as luckily my partner is still on leave, but I am anxiously anticipating his return to work and don’t know how I’ll do it!! 3 days of the week we will have to be out the door to the childminder, but the rest of the 4 he’s home with me😬.
How are we getting through the mornings/days with our eldest whilst sleep deprived?!
Any tips are welcome

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Checking if your babies who are going through sleep regression also waking up before their usual time in the morning (apart from multiple wakings through the night). My LO used to sleep so well from 9 PM to 9 AM with one tiny feed at around 4/5 am. This bedtime works very well for our family. Now that the regression has hit us hard, she is waking up 3 or 4 times and then finally waking up fully alert and cheery around 7.30 am (1-1.5 hrs earlier than usual). Is this happening with you? Do you fully wake them up and start the day or just ride through this time till they are ready to sleep again? Sorry for the long post!
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What are we all using for sleep downstairs for baby no.2? Baby no.1 will be 18 months so worried about a Moses basket etc not being very sturdy!
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What are all our Little ones doing over night? And naps
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