Resenting my partner!
We’ve argued more for sure, me feeling he is taking me for granted and him feeling I am sometimes judgemental of his parenting skills (e.g. he doesn’t think it’s necessary we need to be quiet once we are putting baby to bed so that baby knows it’s bed time and stays sleepy, says baby doesn’t wake so there’s no point, so he stomps around and uses normal loud voice 🙃) anyway, after we had an argument yesterday - because I finally got a break from baby to take a quick shower in the evening and he immediately shouted my name saying baby was hungry and needed me (I’d JUST breast fed baby for an hour and a half) and he didn’t bother to even sooth him properly cos he was playing X Box - so after that he then fell asleep on the sofa, for about 4 hours. I’d gone up to bed with baby by that point. It’s now 5.30am and I’ve just woken to my 4.30 alarm to wake baby and feed him and there my partner is in bed wide awake saying he can’t sleep. I feel internally furious. I am absolutely knackered having to wake to feed baby wishing I could sleep instead, wishing I could be the one to have had a 4 hour nap - but no, for some reason he is so tired he fell asleep on the sofa for 4 hours and now cannot sleep cos he slept so much!!!! He doesn’t even wake in the night yet he was that tired? Furious 🙈🙈🙈🙈 now as I write this feeding my baby he has just started loudly snoring away. Lovely. Anyone else finding their partner really annoying right now?????
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Yes lots of resentment and irritations. I know he works but why does he seem more tired and moan about it in the evenings more than me. Theres still a lack of urgency, when i ask him to do something hes glued to his phone while doing it. Also found out hes had time to start reading a book on his phone, j dont have time to poo😩🙄😳
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