Toxic bay father

I may seem nosey for this but he woke up and turned on the lights and it woke me up. I’m currently 6 months pregnant and any sudden changes in up instantly. I got up to go to the bathroom and he tried to tell me to go lay back down after I told him that I was using the bathroom. Then I’m just doom scrolling on Facebook and I see a post he shared where it says if your single hit me up and it said that he shared it 3 days previously. Then he shows me a comment another female left for him on Facebook asking him to get her flowers. It bothers me because he’s only gotten me flowers once for Valentine’s Day and bc we are struggling financially i accepted fake flowers. I’ve told my baby father multiple times that I love getting flowers from my partners. Then he said the flowers I like cost a lot . I told him when he goes to the grocery store that he can get the smallest bunch of flowers and I would be happy with them. While I’m nodding off he keeps kissing me telling me that he loves me and he wants to live with me and that im only one he wants to be with for the rest of his life. But there are times where I tell him I’m not feeling like myself and need a little break or some help and he says I bet your dad is turning in his grave watching how stupid of a mom I will be. It be times where I be doing something and he’s doing nothing and he will ask me to do something knowing my hands is full. I’ve tried telling him that I need to take a few days to myself and do my self care and he will say that my plans can wait but if he’s here he gets on the game and will be loud.


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He sounds really hard to deal with. I don’t think you’re nosey either.. it’s so normal to be a light sleeper when pregnant.

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No girl your not nosey you have every right to feel this and by the sounds of it he might hold some kind of resentment maybe to you or to himself try sitting and talking to him about how he feels about it all because him saying " i bet your dad is turning in his grace watching how stupid of a moment you will be" something isn't right and the whole single hit me up isn't right as well

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