my daughter is almost 4 and refuses to be potty trained, i have tried everything but she will not use the the toilet or her little toilet.. and she starts 4k in august and i don’t know what to do, does anyone have any tips?
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What are you using on her? Pull-ups or underwear?

No tips but here incase anyone else has any bc I am in the same boat with my son! He did great for 1 day but now bc he knows we want him to use the potty he doesnt tell us.. every once in awhile he will say his belly hurts and we put him on it to poop but that’s like 1x a week

So- we chose upairy underwear- they are padded but still let them feel wet and they don’t like it. Worth a shot- I have a boy and it worked well for him

Needs tips also!

i had major regression in mine after twins were born. he started training before he was 2 and it was 3 and felt like getting worse.
i just bought an advent calendar set of his fave spider-man underwear. pick their fave character. it’s like opening a present every day. once i switched to this underwear i didn’t look back. only putting a pull up on at night. accidents happened but within days he was good. worth the few messes

We had our son who also refused to potty train go comando. We left a potty for him and he just started doing it

I would try the oh crap potty method. Worked for my daughter. Ditch diapers or pull ups altogether.

My son was potty trained a year ago and these last couple of days he’s been peeing in his pants and idk why !! It’s been 3 days now he’s refusing to pee on the potty or tells me after he’s peed himself

Have you tried using a chart with star stickers on the wall by the toilet? You could also give one m&m as an incentive

Also fun undies with characters, a small floor potty that's more comfortable

Also doing a day or two without undies and placing them on the toilet regularly and if hey pee on the floor, just carrying them quickly to the potty....collectively it should work
What sensory things do people do with their babies. 3 months old??

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I am in the process of potty training my son and need any tips or tricks! He does pretty well when he doesn’t have a diaper or pull up on but as soon as we put anything on him even training underwear he starts to have accidents 🤦♀️ I have been off all week and have to send him back to daycare on Monday. Clearly the commando method can’t be used at daycare. HELP!

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I just can’t decide between 2!

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I have been with my child Father for a little bit over three years. We have a 14 month old baby. He complains about the way that I speak to him which I really don’t have a clue what I’m wrong. I’m Caribbean he’s African. I’ve tried to tone down. We still have been going at it for probably two years. He thinks I’m selfish and doesn’t show him love. He complains that I yell, which i don’t think i do, or talk crazy. He wants all these things from me, but isn’t nice to me.
He’s a great father , he provides, but I feel like it’s getting to a point where I can’t do it anymore. Every time we have an argument every time I bring something up of what I don’t like he always turn it back to me.
He says well I’m doing this and I have talked about it and I haven’t changed. I could never bring up something I don’t like without him turning it around to me, and lecturing me.
two days ago he’s said that he’s intentionally being an ass to me so I can see how it feels like when i do it to him and at this point it’s like why are we even in a relationship?
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I’m gonna sound like an A-hole but I need to get it out so I don’t take it out in my husband and child.
My 16 month old was throwing up all night the other night so I got like no sleep. Then my husband was sick last night and so far today throwing up. My son has been very emotional tooday too and won’t nap and I’m just exhausted.
And unfairly annoyed at my husband. Bc when I was pregnant I was throwing up for like 9 weeks and still had work and chores. So like suck it up for a day and help. Throw up and rally, if I could do it for 9 weeks straight you can do it for 1.
Also I started my period so that doesn’t help my mood and I’m bleeding through everything every hour.
I know it’s just one of those days and we all have them but I just needed to vent
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Please please tell me what your doing with your 9 month olds throughout the day. My partner works 12hour shifts and it’s just so draining being in the house with a fussy 9 month olds who I have to try keep a nap routine for.
What are we doing to keep them entertained and us feeling like we have an inch of sanity. Cannot even go to toilet without him crying and it’s so draining. I want positive and supportive advice please :(
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