HELP ME!!!!

Okay long story short my new boyfriend’s Babymamaa! Wants to have sex with me 😐 she wanted to fight me until she saw me in person which was two days ago 😭😭 now all we doing is texting 😭😭

Should I tell him??
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Sounds messy and I’d bounce personally, but could be fun I guess

Yep sounds messy

Girl don't do it….

Do not do it. Hella weird that she wanted to fight you & now this.

Bffr he knows THEY are plotting on you

Ur new boyfriends baby mama wanted to fight u bt now wants to have sex with u? How do ppl even get themselves in these types of situations or attract these types of energies or ppl? Smh 🙅🏾‍♀️ of course u should tell him that his ex wants to have sex with u. Sounds like the logical thing to do here🤷🏾‍♀️ why are u even texting ur boyfriends baby mama in the 1st place?
It’s weird asf that everyone involved seems to have zero boundaries, discipline or awareness.

You definitely need to tell him 😂😂 how do yk she wants to have sex with you did she tell you? Maybe she’s trying to prove something to your man? If he cheated on her maybe she’s tryna get her lick back by tryna get to you 😂

Is she trying to loyalty test?

I think your new bf is messing with both of yall. The fact that she wants to have sex and have him watch? I wouldn't be surprised if this was his idea.

She cute? What does she be saying in the texts?

Wait! So you are cheating on your new boyfriend with his baby momma and now it got to the point she wants in. This is wild. Honestly it's up to you.
Be careful of being tricked.

The hell did I just read 🫥

Girl she doesn’t want to have sex with you 😂😂😂 she is playing chess with him. She is also testing your character if she has said she doesn’t want you around her child it’s likely because you’re his NEW girlfriend that is messy as ever. People don’t respect the kids they bring in this world anymore. He should not have you around his child if you guys just started dating.

I’d tell him before she tells him lol.

if you know she’s trying to write you off as being shitty why even entertain any conversation with her? If it’s a new relationship you shouldn’t be around the child. He has a coparent so what help does he need?

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