Waiting until marriage but pregnant
My boyfriend and I have stopped having sex to grow closer in our relationship and honor God. With that said we decided to get married and plan for a wedding. What I didn’t know is that I was already pregnant! So three months goes by and we haven’t had any sex so imagine my surprise when I find out I’m pregnant. Now the goal was to get married and do right by God which is still on the table but we have decided to remain celibate until then . But I’m struggling bad pregnancy hormones are at an all time high any tips?
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You can still go ahead with the wedding. So baby is born in wedlock.
Doesn’t have to be anything big. A civil ceremony should be enough.
God is merciful and doesn’t hold our misgivings against us.
Its smart to make like fast wedding in that position and later plan bigger wedding. For your mental peace, but how you want you can do!
The only sins He can’t forgive you for, and those that you first can’t forgive yourself for.
Give yourself grace, you’re doing right by getting married anyway. You can’t change what you didn’t know.
God knows your intentions to marry 🤗❤️ show yourself some grace.
He is merciful!
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