So I’m in need of freezer meal prep ideas… so far I have made lasagne, sausage casserole, meatballs in a bolognese sauce (without the pasta because we can make that fresh on the day) and cottage pie. I’ve also prepped some breakfast English muffins (like the McDonald’s muffins) so we have something easy if we need it.
My partner is working on being healthier and losing weight, and it’s really important to us both that he stays on track. We also have a 3 year old that needs balanced meals. Any ideas of what I can prepare so we can navigate the newly postpartum exhaustion but eat something that will be good for us all and my recovery?
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Chilli, curries, roasted meat to go in a roast dinner or sandwiches, stews, jacket potatoes, home made vegetable rice x

Breakfast burritos. Oat pancakes, banana pancakes, ill be making yoghurt bark as well, stew

The first time round I batch cooked chicken with different marinades, roasted lots of veggies and then made lots of rice and mash and portioned it all out. Also did salmon, lasagne, cottage pie, curries

Chilli, curries, pastas and various sauces/ pasta bakes x

Creamy ham, chicken and leek (pies, pasta or with potatoes)
Taco/fajita mix
Chorizo with veg and tomato sauce to serve with gnocchi/pasta
Beef stew loads of veggies

I've made a lot of different types of curries and dhals with lentils, chickpeas, spinach, tomatoes etc. There's some good recipes on the BBC Good Food app. I've also done a healthy version of a chilli con carne from there which is delicious 😋
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