Patner makes fun of my weight and my exhaustion

I take care of our little one, does whatever required of me in terms of running the household, I work two long shift, have not had my hair washed in months, i am coming down with the flu and I look tired. Each time I am not energetic he goes I have to look at your face which is moodiness.. oh let me guess your tired (tease me and laugh). When we argue he come for my weight, mind you am breastfeeding and I have PCOS plus he is not skinny either.

I have to take this until I finish my training because I have nobody to watch take my daughter to nursery and pick her up. Stay with her until am back in the night. This is probably it for the next 18 months atleast...

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So sorry you’re going through this hun.
You sound like a busy and amazing woman and mother 🥰

That's terrible of him to talk so low like that when y'all argue ... How immature and such disgusting behavior that he would come after the mother of his child that literally was pregnant with his child for 9 months ,grew the baby in your stomach , birthed and going through post partum , plus breastfeeding is no easy task either and now wants to make fun of your weight?! You created a miracle in your body, LITERAL LIFE!!! He needs to show you a lot more respect and Grace with everything that you been going through because you're doing so much being a mom and working! He sounds like he projects a lot of his insecurities onto you and I'm sorry girl you don't deserve that and deserve to have a partner that wants to help you and encourage you! You're an amazing mama and we are rooting for you!!

When you say for the next 18 months you mean because you will LEAVE HIM after that right? Please please, set a better example for your daughter, don't let her think this is what a relationship should look like. In the meantime just quiet quit/grey rock him and do the bare minimum and focus on you

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