Velcro babies and nursery
Anyone already back at work that has a Velcro baby, how long did it take for them to settle in nursery?
My boy had a week of 1-2 hour settling in visits, that were all spent very upset. He was due to start today but we agreed another 2 hour, and to try a half day tomorrow and to build towards a full day. Feel very anxious and I gave myself 3 weeks with him in nursery before I'm.back at work, anticipating that this might happen but I won't be able to be at work knowing he's so upset.
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Following as in a similar boat!
My little boy cried at every drop off clinging to me not wanting to be handed over for the 1st two weeks. It was awful I cried every drive home.
Then suddenly his 3rd week the tears stopped. He wasn't smiling or excited but he didn't look sad or scared anymore. They've said he's settled really well.
He's only in for 3 half days at the moment. Full time usually settle quicker with them being there longer and having less of a break between days they attend
Following this as I’m in a similar boat, we also co sleep so I’m really worried about how she will go down for nap times
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