Nursery teachers not paying attention ?
My 3 year old started nursery in Jan and after a few weeks she started telling me that some kid was hitting her. I was telling the teacher and she said she’d keep an eye out . Then she started to bring still wet painting scrunched up in a ball in her backpack so we let the teacher know too and she said “ well we do tell them to bring the paintings to us when they’re done so we can let them dry but the kids don’t listen and just take them to their bags. I thought “ hmm shouldn’t they be watching them and not letting them?” She said dw from now on we’ll make sure to hold on to them.
I also was noticing she’s come home with a full water bottle but I thought maybe they didn’t realise she had one even tho it was on the outside of her bag so I let her know that she had a water bottle in case she gets thirsty and a change of clothes in case she dirties or wets her clothes( this was last week )
Today she comes home with 3 more fully wet paintings in her bag, telling me some child hit her again and when she told the teacher, the teacher shouted at her and told her to go sit down and with a drenched cardigan which they took off of her but her top underneath was still really wet but they let it on.
I hate having to be a Karen and complaining to the teacher because I don’t want them getting annoyed but honestly I don’t know how to even address this with them again smh.
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I would arrange a meeting with them and voice your concerns to be honest. Because it's not just one small thing, it's many
Wth?? I would raise hell honestly and file complain everywhere until someone actually listens and does something about it.
I’d be raising this too. It’s your child at the end of the day you don’t send them to be ignored at nursery. It is a place for them to flourish and learn. Not come back unhappy, upset and getting bullied at such a young age. If the teacher does nothing, I’m the type of person who will talk to the mother regarding the other child’s behaviour too. My nephew was one of these hitting kids and he was doing it for sensory feelings, after being explained it hurt people, he stopped. But he had to be caught by the teacher, that kid is weirdly scared of them
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