Looking to build my girl gang!

Hello! I am a 42 year old momma to a 5 year old kiddo. I am neurospicy with some ADHD. I currently live in London but my boyfriend lives in Kitchener so I'm in the area quite often and plan to move in the next year. I'm trying to build some friendships so I have friends to socialize with! I am a big fan of board games, video games, smutty books, nights in or nights out. Looking to build the real deep friendships, not the surface level acquaintances.

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Do you mind your partner watching porn?

Right, I want no judgements lol!
So, was doing morning feed with baba and he went to sleep. My partners phone was glaring at me, I trust him 1000000% in no way would I think he would cheat, but if I’m being real I’m a nosey mf and like to have a snoop🤣.
So first I read his and his mums chat, nothing exciting, a few minor comments from his mum but nothing I’ve not heard before 🤣.
Then I decide to go through his photos just to see if there’s any of baba on there that I haven’t seen. Lo and behold there’s a few porn videos on there.
Me and my partner last had sex when I was 4 months pregnant, I’m 5 months pp now. We’ve done things but I’m just scared of having sex now, I’m scared of the pain, of it feeling different and getting pregnant again but tbh that’s a whole other story lol!
What I’m getting at is I feel like I should be annoyed but I’m kind of not as I know I havnt been having sex with him and people have needs.
Would you be annoyed?

any GC i can join?

i’m a SAHM to a newborn boy while my partner works during the day. i don’t have many friends and i get pretty lonely and i’m looking for other moms to chat with :) i’d prefer to join a smaller group chat! 🥰

Medication to stop period?

Has anyone been put on medication from the doctor to stop their bleeding?

I’ve been having heavy periods and told her I didn’t want any hormone contraceptives. Got ultrasound booked in but offered medication.

Curious to know if anyone has been on it and experiences?

Back to work

I’m back to work on Tuesday 😭 going back on my usual hours ( part time ) from my previous baby it’s only Tuesdays Wednesdays and Thursdays but I’m still dreading it. When do you go back ?

How about

If you have someone else in your mind other than your baby's father and if that person was also interested in you. But since you've realized that you were pregnant you had to cut the connectors with him. As that person was very angry with you then he also got his girlfriend pregnant. Since you love your baby so much and she needs her father, would you wait till she's old enough before contacting that guy or just leave it as it is?

Anyone else in a different stage of life ?

Im 19 with an almost 3m old and lord I am so alone. My friends are kind and giving but they can’t relate the way I need for obvious reasons. My ideal friend date? At home with some drinks for the night 🥂🤗