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Do you mind your partner watching porn?

Right, I want no judgements lol!
So, was doing morning feed with baba and he went to sleep. My partners phone was glaring at me, I trust him 1000000% in no way would I think he would cheat, but if I’m being real I’m a nosey mf and like to have a snoop🤣.
So first I read his and his mums chat, nothing exciting, a few minor comments from his mum but nothing I’ve not heard before 🤣.
Then I decide to go through his photos just to see if there’s any of baba on there that I haven’t seen. Lo and behold there’s a few porn videos on there.
Me and my partner last had sex when I was 4 months pregnant, I’m 5 months pp now. We’ve done things but I’m just scared of having sex now, I’m scared of the pain, of it feeling different and getting pregnant again but tbh that’s a whole other story lol!
What I’m getting at is I feel like I should be annoyed but I’m kind of not as I know I havnt been having sex with him and people have needs.
Would you be annoyed?

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