Ideas for Activities??

Hi all ! The weather has slowly started to get better around here so we've been able to go out the house a bit more. We do plenty of 1-1 chats and play time at home too. But lately im finding myself struggling to fill the longer wake windows with my 9month old who is constantly wanting to either be on the move but cannot yet crawl, or gets bored after 10 minutes of a single activity. Goes in her walker on and off which she loves, and floor time too but everything ive been doing previously I feel is no longer enough for her if that makes any sense ?? . What do you guys do for instance on a nice day, when alone for the whole day with baby apart from a general stroll around town/park ? My baby is often having 1-2 naps throughout the day, so there's plenty of time to do activities but at the same time I dont really know of any age appropriate things for her to do that I can also do alone with her as I dont have a friend group of other mums to meet etc. And her dad works all day long. I don't drive either. I thought about taking her to the beach on a nice day but concerned that shes yet too young and likely will just eat the sand more than anything šŸ˜…. Im starting to feel quite bad/guilty that im not doing much with her . Any suggestions??

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Have you looked to see where you local baby groups are? Baby sensory is great as well as Hartbeeps. Your local library will probably host baby or activity mornings too.
You could ask your health visiting team for info on local groups

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Agree on the above, library play and stays / rhyme times are great (and usually quite short so you can more easily fit in around naps..). Depending on where you are, lots of museums and galleries have baby and toddler activities too, we did *alot* of those to keep him engaged and busy. A walk on the beach sounds lovely to me though! Remember to do some activities that you want to do too, babies are generally happy when you are - I took mine on countless charity shop crawls, not like he cared but he had plenty to look at haha x

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Agree with above re library & play and stays. We’ve started playing in the garden on a picnic blanket - even just playing with standard toys but outside, little one seems so much happier. A lot more sensory input outside!

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