what to do?

lately my boyfriend and I have been getting into these small, not worth it arguments…and it’s mainly him starting it.. i try communicating ever so calmly,
he lashes out, i don’t talk about my feelings, he lashes out. just last night he was talking to me as if i was child, for example, “get your ass in the bed and go to sleep” i asked, please don’t speak to me as if im a child, most importantly im not your child, he told me i was being foolish… this isn’t typically like him but the last time he started acting out he was cheating..thoughts on what i should do?

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Leave his ass it’s only going to get worse. I just left a domestic violence situation and he happens to be my baby daddy every little argument lead up to this. These types of males show us their colors until we are blue in the face and can’t take it anymore. Just speaking from experience, but do you think he will change or treat you better?

Leave. Make him suffer the consequences. That will change him more than just telling him u don’t like that.

Men always beg their family to come back. But be careful some men want the woman to leave just so they can fuck around during the break and justify it. Some men push for this to happen just so they can go fuck around then when they r done they will ask u to come back

If my man spoke to me in the way all hell would break loose. Well done for keeping your cool girl. In all honesty if he said the bed comment to me, I would not get into that bed and leave the room out of principle. I think next time he speaks to you like that you need to tell him to f*ck off and grow up into a respectful man tbh.

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