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I am trying to create a schedule, routine, and plan for both me and my daughter so our days can feel more peaceful, organized, and balanced. I want something that helps us start our mornings calmly, move through the day without feeling rushed or overwhelmed, and end our nights feeling safe, relaxed, and connected.

For myself, I want structure that allows me to take care of my responsibilities while also making time for rest and personal peace. For my daughter, I want a routine that feels gentle, supportive, and sensory-friendly—something that helps her feel comfortable, understood, and secure throughout the day.

This routine is not about perfection, but about creating stability, love, and a sense of calm in our everyday life together.

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Do you ever feel like ‘damaged goods’ since becoming a Mum?

So basically my partner and I are not on great terms, and haven’t been for a while now. I keep thinking this might be it for us and we’d be better off separating, but one thing always comes to mind when I think about ever meeting someone new. I know in the grander scheme of things that meeting someone else isn’t exactly top priority but I hate to think of a life where I’m single forever, so of course it crossed my mind a lot.
The thing which worries me is that ever since having a child and becoming a Mum I feel like I’m damaged goods, in the eyes of anyone else that is. I feel like no one would ever be interested in me again.

Does anyone else have this feeling, or felt this way in the past?

I’m in a straight relationship but I miss sex with women

I have been in and out of straight and lesbian relationships for years. Although I love my partner and can see a future with him I just don’t really get in the mood for him in that way and miss how women would make me feel during intercourse

Last night dinner 🤤🤤

Aki and saltfish

Curious…

Hello! Can i ask you mamas what your husband/partner does for a living that allows you to comfortably be a SAHM? We’d like to eventually transition to that as our family grows, but also want the freedom to build the life we want. Also open to hearing if any of you work remote or side gigs to help contribute financially? Much appreciated! 🩵🩵🩵

Phone passcode

This isn’t really to do with pregnancy/birth.. but my husband has changed his phone passcode (I probably shouldn’t have tried snooping). But after our first, our relationship went through the wringer and tbh neither of us were perfect, I’ll hold my hands up to that. But he was sexting another girl for a while. We’ve worked so hard on our relationship since then and now married.. so I don’t know if I’m just being paranoid because of that and near my due date, but I’ll be honest intimacy is low atm so worried he’s finding it somewhere else even if it’s on the phone.. do I come clean and ask why his passcode has changed even though it shows I tried to look or leave it?

Pressure

Anyone got loads of pressure in vagina?!

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