High sex drive

So I just got approved to have sex again by my doctor and I told my bf and he wasn't excited. Like I have been horny for 2 weeks and I have been using my toy but it's not the same to me. This guy I'm really close to (we have been friends for 4 years) he just told me that he has feelings for me for 3 years but he doesn't want to date yet. But he wants to be friends with benefits. But the only issue is that me and my bf r also having relationship issues. But I also really like my friend. He likes to tease me but it is driving me insane. Like honestly I can tell him anything and he has told me he wants to fuck me but he doesn't know how I would feel about it.

Plz help me for what I should do

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Break up with current boyfriend if you arent happy.

You JUST had a baby with this person. Being horny isn't a reason to cheat and absolutely crush the man you just created a life with.

Do him a favor and break up with him. This is absolutely crazy.

If you have feelings for a man other than your boyfriend that is your answer . break up with him before this gets worse . Holding on to him and wasting his time while wanting to be intimate and in a relationship with a friend is unfair . You need to have your priorities straight with your baby and future . Is sex with another man who doesn’t want to be serious worth the relationship with your daughter’s dad ?

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