High sex drive
So I just got approved to have sex again by my doctor and I told my bf and he wasn't excited. Like I have been horny for 2 weeks and I have been using my toy but it's not the same to me. This guy I'm really close to (we have been friends for 4 years) he just told me that he has feelings for me for 3 years but he doesn't want to date yet. But he wants to be friends with benefits. But the only issue is that me and my bf r also having relationship issues. But I also really like my friend. He likes to tease me but it is driving me insane. Like honestly I can tell him anything and he has told me he wants to fuck me but he doesn't know how I would feel about it.
Plz help me for what I should do
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Break up with current boyfriend if you arent happy.
If you have feelings for a man other than your boyfriend that is your answer . break up with him before this gets worse . Holding on to him and wasting his time while wanting to be intimate and in a relationship with a friend is unfair . You need to have your priorities straight with your baby and future . Is sex with another man who doesn’t want to be serious worth the relationship with your daughter’s dad ?
Your friend doesn’t want anything more than sex, there’s no emotional connection there. It wouldn’t matter if it was you or someone else. Shut it down.
It doesn’t sound like you’re happy with your current partner either, especially if you’re willing to entertain other people flirting with you. Focus on whether your relationship has a future first before you start thinking about dating, especially after just having a baby your hormones are in charge, not your head. The fact he’s reluctant or not excited about being intimate with you is a really big deal and needs a deeper discussion - you kinda glossed over it to talk about the friend flirting. Does that bother you that he’s not as into it as you? If it’s not that big a deal, that’s more proof your relationship is in trouble.
Right now the main priority needs to be your baby and what is best for them, not putting bodily pleasure first
Your “friend” just wants to use you for his sexual gratification. He doesn’t want you for anything more than that.
Sounds like you are already cheating without making a move yet. Unless you have an open relationship, you need to be single. I feel bad for your bf tbh.
There’s no point in doing couples counselling if you’re talking sexually with someone else! By the way, calling him a friend doesn’t take away from the fact that you are actually cheating on your boyfriend with this guy.
I don’t think you should stay with your boyfriend or get with your ‘friend’. Both are awful decisions and you should probably just focus on settling in with your baby at the moment.
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You can have a lovely conversation with another mum, exchange numbers and genuinely think, “I’d love to be friends with her”… then somehow life gets busy and you never actually see each other again
Sometimes I think we all want mum friends, but we’re all tired, busy and waiting for someone else to make the first move.
So I’m curious… what do you find hardest about making mum friends?
Is it approaching someone? Keeping the friendship going? Finding mums with similar interests/ages of kids? Or just finding the time to actually meet? 👀
Let’s have a real mum-to-mum chat 💕 And if you’re also looking for genuine friendships, don’t be shy — say hi, you never know who might be looking for a mum friend too 🫶🏽
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