Why am I so pathetic...

I just cant walk away from this "friendship" that is so glaringly obviously one way..I go 3 days feel great and then just end up caving in and messaging to see how they are

I feel im worth more than this however something in me is clearly desperate to retain the 1 friend I have 😔 even writing this is sound so stupid

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You'll honestly feel so much better for cutting toxic people out of your life - when they see you moving on and enjoying life without them - they will reach out and then it's up to you if you accept them back in again or not 🩷

You know you deserve better - be kind to yourself 💕

I had this happen years ago, I was around 22. I’d been in another country for 4 months and when I came back we met up.
She didn’t ask a single question about my time away, I asked her a bunch though.
That’s when I slowly pulled away.

I get you though, it’s tough!

I was friends with someone who only ever wanted to talk to me when they have something going on in their life. They would check in but only for me ask how they are to tell me everything they got going on and when said I was pregnant didn’t even ask how I was just to say theyHonestly I decided there not worth it, there not a bad person but not a person for me. I would block them. There not worth your time or friendship if they can see what’s in front of them. Your be better of without them.

Bin her off and make new friends. I’ll be your friend!

Being lonely is a horrible feeling. There are people out there who will appreciate your friendship.
You’re welcome to message me if you like. I don’t get out a lot having 3 kids so would be nice to have a mam friend to talk to 😊

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I want to give up so bad

This shits too hard

Please answer this❤️

Why do you post up looking for friends, but leave people on Read in your inbox?

I think in your bio, you should specify the type of friends that you're looking for. Maybe race is a factor. Maybe appearance is a factor. I don't get it.

Well, maybe you're just looking for social media friends maybe you're just looking for people to follow you and like your pictures. I really don't get it. Please help me out.

Wtffff I dont understand men

Soooo my bf has been pretty adamant that he doesnt like sex while I'm pregnant. Currently about 7.5 months right now & I'm lucky if I get it once a month. He was always giving excuses "I'm just not in the right mind set right now", "I'm stressed, I'm tired", "I don't like putting it in you when baby is so close", "what if your water breaks while I'm going down on you?", it was endless. He would joke about me getting a rose. Wellllll he didnt know I already had something similar, I'm just not really into using it and only was using it before I dated him. He found it a few days ago and guess what?? It seemed like he got upset! While he tried to laugh it off he end up leaving the room. Then makes little remarks about it throughout the rest of the day. "You'd rather do that then do anything with me?" "I havent been doing anything for me" "well it must be better than me since you're not coming to me asking for it". 😑 & lately hes been asking nearly every day to be intimate since the day he found it. Now im just bitter and frustrated he kept turning me down or making excuses of why he didnt initiate these last 4-5 months and dont even want to do anything with him. I don't understand this bs, he's so damn frusterating.

Birthday/Christmas

What are we buying our babies for birthday/Christmas? For reference my little girl was born on the 17th December so really not that much time between them both. But looking for ideas as I'm clueless on where to start💓

Can you come back from this?

If your feelings are changing/have changed toward your partner and relationship, can you come back from that?

8 weeks postpartum. divorce?

my husband and i are fighting intensely. not only am i 8 weeks postpartum, im VERY sleep deprived and postpartum depressed and we have a lot going on like too much debt, failed businesses, moving countries, about to be living with my MIL, me having no car available or any way to work or leave, never able to start my career or anything. we shouldn’t have moved abroad and we shouldn’t have had a baby. i have no family either. i’ve never imagined this would be my life and i never imagined i would be thinking this. what would you do in my situation?