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Learn more about our guidelines.Anyone bought their house via right to buy- just wondering the pros and cons and any hidden fees. Give me all the advice you got pleaseš
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So weāre in the middle of building an annex in the garden for my mil. Iām not really keen on the idea since we donāt have a loving joyful relationship. But I knew if I didnāt go along with it my partner would have resented me a little and weāve already really struggled in our relationship. Plus Iāve just had a baby with a toddler at home and not in the space to deal with any of it. Heās just told me that if at any point in the future I decide itās not working he would stay with his mum. And he was dead serious š§ THOUGHTS?
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I left my baby daddy in April bc I was a single parent. I did everything for my son while he just went to work and paid his OWN bills and he called it providing. He was even making me pay half the rent and bills too even tho I wasnāt working and caring for baby 24/7. I did nights, cooking, cleaning, playing, bath time EVERYTHING. So he was able to work. But I didnāt get a dime and had to pay him.. and his family is the EXACT same. They said If I stopped paying rent they would take me to court⦠I honestly started not liking ppl bc of my bd family. They did not value me AT ALL! I was a full time student taking hard classes and raising my son full time. I was up from 6am-1am most days bc I had to.. Thatās not right.. BUT my son wants to go back with his dad and me. Im thinking about it bc Raising a child in a single family household comes with so many cons.. more likely to do drugs, act out, etc. idk what to do. I want my son to be happy but I deserve to be happy too⦠Iām going to nursing school in January and I canāt imagine being with unsupportive ppl while ur trying to build a career. I would crash out
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Hi Mummas! Has anyone tried coming back to work after a year of parental leave but as soon as coming back to work your body shuts down (health wise) as if it knows subconsciously that youād prefer to be a SAHM?
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Iām posting anonymously because I feel embarrassed and alone, and I could really use some support from other moms.
I thought I was in a relationship with someone who was only dating me. Then another woman reached out, and I learned he had been involved with her too. Theyāre no longer together, but I still canāt move past the betrayal.
He asked me to move in with him several times. I tried, but I kept leaving because I never felt emotionally safe with him. Now Iām pregnant, and he still wants to see me and have sex with me, but he hasnāt come to any appointments or really acknowledged our baby.
He says heās upset that I spoke to the other woman and that I mentioned moving to another state with the baby, where Iād have support. Iām alone where I live now, and I was trying to think about how I could manage.
I feel awful. I keep thinking that if I hadnāt gotten back together with him, I wouldnāt be pregnant and facing this alone. Has anyone else dealt with betrayal during pregnancy? How did you get through it?
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