Am I crazy, wrong, or is there more going on?

So I have been with my partner for 12 years. We are in our late 20’s. A long time. We have sex often, but Rarely will he do something more, but he knows I like spankings, handcuffs, blindfold, and some choking. I recently made a sex game. Where basically it’s a bunch of sex ideas, some bingos with locations and positions in our house, yes sex days, strip teases, new lingerie, role play ideas, etc all on a bunch of slips and the idea originally was to do one a week. He has a high sex drive and so do I. But since I made this? It’s like he doesn’t want to touch me at all. I don’t know if I’ve offended him by planning something like this. Or if hes getting off himself? Or something else? What could I have done? Suggest more? We both enjoy sex.

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So to summaries me and my bd aren’t technically tg. But he be trying to grab me and touch me when ever he comes to see our baby. I love him but I have a feeling that he talks or sees other women I just don’t trust him. Today he calls me at 5 am to pick him up he’s in the middle of town. I’m like dude wtf are you doing out rn, whatever I picked him up. And he ends up falling asleep on the couch and he receives a call and I picked it up and it was some girl that he talks to. I answer the ft like it’s him lm like hello and she thinks it’s him. Then I’m trying to talk to her but I just don’t know what to say so I end up telling her I’m his bm and she’s like oh okay, “tell him to call me when he’s up” I said “ do you guys talk” she *sighs* and hangs up.. I was shook bc why wouldn’t she want to talk to me… tf did I do to her. He’s literally my bm. Idk if I’m the bitch or her. But if I was her I would have reacted nicer.. maybe that’s just me. I wasn’t being a bitch to her on the phone. I was nervous as hell. Smh

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