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I have a girl so the chances are slim regardless...but not letting her play rugby, hockey, or american football.

I wouldn’t want my child to play contact sports as they result in a lot of injuries but I wouldn’t discourage or prevent them from playing if they really wanted to.

Only for practical reasons and expense. My brother did rugby so I wouldn’t be keen on then doing that! I’d encourage them to give most things a go if they wanted to.

No football or horseback riding. Likely soccer when he gets older

I wouldn't say "allow"... but I hope to god she doesn't want to play hockey. Hockey parents are the absolute worst.

I was allowed to do whatever I wanted and mind children are and will be awarded the same opportunities what exactly is the reason to shelter them because of your own fears that’s not right

Nope they are welcome to try what interests them. Whether that's football (soccer), wrestling, contact sports, bull riding lol etc etc. I wouldn't feel right taking away something they want to try

Only thing I’d be opposed to is football because of TBIs

We aren’t allowing our kids to play American football bc of TBIs or indoor soccer bc of the increased cancer risk. They are free to choose any other sport though!

If it’s something they love and are passionate about, I’m not going to stop them.

In my opinion a child can get hurt going down a slide, riding a bike, walking down a set of stairs, simply playing in the back garden

I don’t really want him playing American football. But if he shows significant interest I’ll bend.

For financial or safety?

My daughter will never do cheerleading. Hyper sexualised these days

Anything that we can't afford or anything that greatly increases the odds of permanent physical disability.

Boy mum, just will try and disuade from rugby because of head injuries, but if he’s set on it, then all good.

Yes no football. That’s pretty much my only no, I’m scared of head injuries😬

The only sport I’d say no to is UFC. Far too much risk and is it really worth it? Risking breaking bones, starving your brain of oxygen etc.. nah. I personally also believe UFC just promotes violence. Boxing I find more appropriate.

No American football. Too dangerous of a contact sport. Too many chances for concussion, TBI & spinal injuries. Absolutely not.
I will not be betting on my kids life & safety.

Never heard of such a thing! Sounds nuts to restrict them - that's just me

Agreed with most saying no football.

No football (American), anything else is up for grabs

Idk why the majority said No when the comments don't match that lol. I think it's sad as a teacher when a mother specifically, says their son can't play x sport. We see kids who are 6 playing hockey, & 8 playing football. If you make your kid wait or never allow it when they really want to do it.. it will impact them.

I guess we can say no to whatever we want but as they come of age if they really love it/wanted to do it, they will. My mum freaked out when she heard my brother starting boxing, his 3rd match is in 2w, he’s 24. After his 1st match the other dude hit his head so hard he didn’t go home after his match his medic team took him to ED coz he had a concussion. Did that stop him, no lol. He’s on his 3rd match now. 😵💫

If the cons outweigh the pros in general and health/safety wise, I’ll definitely say no.

Only if there was something specialized we couldn’t afford (we’d try really hard to make it work first)

Yes absolutely. Football and Hockey were always going to be a no.

disagree. Maybe with something but they are not going to be able to play sports like that later. Until 18 the parent gets the say. After that they could maybe join a recreational league or something? But those are much less common. And then it’s not like they could go to college and play without any experience.
So even if they wanted to later, they really couldn’t

I mean you just said you had been playing your whole life. Someone who was not allowed to is not going to be at the level of college athletes. I’m sure there might be a few expectations. But the vast majority of them are not going to stand a chance in that environment.
Either way it would cut the chances wayy down
Any recommendations would be great, going down to Cornwall for a couple of days and would like the option of staying at Grandparents etc

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I need help please! I am overwhelmed and sad. I am currently 17weeks pregnant with my second child amd my Son is 3 years and 10months old. He goes to nursery 3 days a week and over the past 6 months, he was said to have been exhibiting challenging behaviours such as hitting people, scratching and screaming when he is upset at nursery. He is different at home but when he's upset, he just cries at home. In nursery, he refuses to share toys or anything and hits at the slightest provocation. No one hits hum at hime so I don't know why he has developed such behaviours all of a sudden. His nursery manager has made us reduce his hours to 2 hrs 30 mins per day which is so tight for me as I work full time. I have tried talking to him, teaching him about safe hands and setting boundaries but nothing at all had changed, i don't know what else to do at this point. His dad (my husband) works far away and comes over the weekend, so there's only little that i can do. I need help please, any suggestions is welcomed.
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Has anyone got any suggestions of activities to do whilst on maternity leave?
We do swimming once a week and try to go to a play group as well as going for walks.
My LO is 8.5 months old and I’m getting fed up of being in the house as much as we are, so I’m sure my daughter is too!
We’re in Worcestershire area so any ideas/recommendations would be much appreciated 😊
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Anyone encountered something in nursery that required some form of feedback or complain?
from what I’m reading, nurseries are supposed to meet individual baby needs and not make them follow nursery schedule.
But most time they said they tried, but never did and make baby follow their own time due to lack of staff.
For example when they r supposed to put baby to sleep or feed milk, they say they can’t (and tried) but in actual fact they have not tried. Inconsistent updates from different nursery staff as well.
I’m worried. If basic updates are inconsistent even. How are we even gonna be at ease when we send our babies there?
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I felt like my boyfriend was hiding something (again) and I checked his phone, I found lots of porn websites in his search history. I feel like shit, I feel like I’m not enough to anyone. He was never like this and I had a higher sex drive all of a sudden he needs more..
we’ve split up before and he said he started watching it then.. I’m 3 weeks postpartum and we’ve been intimate since and it breaks my heart knowing I’m not enough even tho I made sure his needs are met. I swear any other man would appreciate it, and I do take care of myself so why can’t I just be good enough? Everyone says he’s punching and I could definitely do much better than him, but I just wanted to work things out with him so much no one else mattered to me ever. How do I cope with this?
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My husband works and I’m a SAHM, and he was working from home today. Our 2-year-old was whinging and didn’t want to go out, even though I asked her so many times. So she was playing in the living room, and obviously it was a mess, toys all over the floor and some papers because she was drawing.
Then my husband came in and started telling our daughter off for whinging and telling her to be nice to me. He was also complaining about the living room being messy. Like, really?! We have a toddler! What is that attitude?!
I’m honestly so annoyed. And I was cooking while my toddler was playing, btw, and now I’m not even going to cook anymore.
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