How to deal with hate online

I’ve recently started TikTok’s on my pregnancy journey, and I have been getting quite a lot of views and attention. So I think this is an opportunity for me to actually start making TikTok’s, but how do I deal with negative comments? I’ve had quite a lot of nasty comments, how do you handle that? I’m a sensitive person 😅

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Left over nappies

What do people do with leftover nappies when their babies go up a size, I have lots of size 1,2 and 3 from when my baby sizes up and im not sure what to do with them , binning seems wrong , charity and food and living banks only take them when it’s a sealed brand new pack , what do you do with your leftovers

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Do you wash your hands after changing a nappy?

I've been to quite a few baby groups where I've noticed a lot of her mums don't wash their hands after they change their baby. they just change them in the room and then carry on with the class. Personally, I find it gross and the same as going to the toilet without washing your hands. I wondered whatever everyone else thought.

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Lump in breast when breastfeeding

I have found a lump in my breast that is sore to touch and hard. It feels kind of moveable. Has anyone had this while breastfeeding? It’s not mastitis as I’ve had that a few times

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Is it blood

My 6months baby spitted out curdled milk and it had red fibre like thing in it. Is it blood? Has anyone seen it before with their baby. He had avocados in the morning and this spit up was at night

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Bath time

My 1 year old randomly started hating baths she used to love them and now all she will scream and yell and want out right when she goes in ( nothing has happened for her to act like this just our normal night time routine) has anyone experienced this?

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Episiotomy fear

If you’ve had tearing or an episiotomy please be real with me here, I’m a ftm absolutely terrified about tearing. Logically, I’d rather have the episiotomy than it tearing on its own so it can heal better, but the thought of them having to cut down there makes me want to cry and scream and crawl out of my skin😖
Did you feel the tear or cut when it happened? Was it painful or just like “oh shit yikes”? How much pain did you still feel during recovery?
I’m filling out the birth preference form my hospital gave me, but it doesn’t have anything on here about this. I’m thinking of writing that I give them permission to make the cut if they think it’s necessary, but if possible I don’t want to know about it until after the birth is over. Is that a reasonable request?
This is causing me so much anxiety, more than contractions or labor pain itself for some reason😅

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