Just venting

Going crazy
For context: we have been married for 9 years. Yesterday he started giving the silent treatment and today after coming back from an interview he texts me that he wants a divorce “that he is not good enough for me” said he is not living with me anymore. Printed and filled out divorce papers. I haven’t worked in 8 years and have 4 kids. My world is shattered and I don’t know what to do

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did u have any idea abt his thoughts and intention to get divorced??🤯🥺

were there any issues going on? or he just out of nowhere let u know abt that AND by text?? after 9 years.. thats mature..?!

Is it that he wants you to be a SAHM???

I been a sahm. He lost his job recently and is having a hard time finding a job, and we were trying to mend our marriage after I found out he had been cheating on me

Sounds like there could be someone else in the picture

When someone tells you he is not good enough for you it is the guilt that he has another one.. and choosing the other one.
My brother had the same situation. Gf ended the relationship after 7 yrs on the phone while he was in another country for work locked in for 2 months

He told me. I do have a feeling that he is looking to be with his affair

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Have you ever given birth alone ONLY due to childcare?

Before any asks or judges: our son has never been with anyone but us... No nursery, no other family, no babysitter or child minder etc etc. my family also lives 4000 miles away in Canada and no they cannot fly out last minute due to many reasons as my Mum and step Dad could not afford it due to the cost of living in Canada, my Mum also works for the military so can just book off last minute, we can't afford to fly them out as it would cost $300-$4000 between return flights, paying for a coach from London to West Yorkshire (with their health they can't do a 12 hour layover to come to our local airport), hotel, ubers and food. Furthermore, I am 100% fine with it, to me it will be more magical for my husband to meet his child in the comfort and intimacy of our own home with our little family. Lastly I would rather our son be with his Dad then be separated from us both, with someone different and also going through the stress of having a new baby in the house.

ANYWAYS has anyone else been in the same situation and given birth alone whether it was a vaginal, VBAC or C-section?

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Hi 👋🏼
We’re going on our first family holiday to a caravan in the UK in a couple of weeks. Please can anyone give us tips of what to take and what not to take. My brain fills very overwhelmed right now ahah

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30 hours funded childcare

I am planning on taking my little one to nursery when she is one and I go back go work. I am just trying to figure out finances... how much do you get roughly for the 30 hours free childcare?

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I’m booked in for a C-section in 3 weeks. I’m a bit worried about how much support I am going to need from my partner.

My partner has a good amount of time off work but he will be mainly looking after our 4yo (he only goes to preschool 3 mornings a week) he will also need to help me with baby, cook, do housework etc. I do find my partner can get quite overwhelmed when there’s lots to do & he’s not great at
multitasking 🙈

How was your support/recovery? Is there anything I can do to make it easier for us all but also still feel we are in our little bubble?

It was easier the first time round as I had an assisted normal birth so recovered quite quickly & we only had the baby to worry about 🤔

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