Travelling essentials

FTM due to travel abroad with my 6 month baby girl in May for the first time. Do you guys have any travel essentials or any convenient changing bags (we currently use a backpack style that im worried might be quite bulky)? Thanks :)

in our community

Okay yesterday I made a post about my husband being misogynistic and I just can’t.

I told him I want the divorce and explained why, so now he’s sending me these videos of this “manospere” stuff and they actually so insane they make me sick. He says it’s not misogynistic because women preach it too, so all day I’ve been getting videos of female YouTubers preaching. He says if I can’t be a good woman then maybe it’s better if I do leave, because he’s going to find three women to replace me with in a one sided poly relationship 😂😂😂😂

Am I being too sensitive?

This is going to sound insane… I went to buy a new trimmer (my husband broke mine shaving his armpits 🤧) He clearly also needs one so I suggested one of those all in ones with multiple heads. He was really rude about sharing heads (even though I said I would use only one particular head one for my sensitive areas). Now I am just fuming, he can use it on his armpits to borrow mine?? Also if he’s so disgusted don’t have sex with me then, also I know don’t want do to perineal exercises with him. LIKE SORRY I DISGUST YOU. I think this may be linked to me having some rapidly deteriorating self esteem due to upcoming Labour, but still I’m so mad 😂😭

Separation anxiety 😩

My little boy started crying when I left the room the week before he turned 8 months, at first I thought it was because he’s with me 24/7 (I do leave him for a few hours some evenings and I have left him over night a few times) but he now does it with whoever he is alone with in a room! As soon as that person gets up to leave he will start panicking and crying and then he gets him self so worked up until you come back. I’m trying not to make a big fuss and when I come back I just say “look mummy’s back” rather than picking him up and giving the situation too much attention but any advice on what I could do will be helpful and how long this is going to last 🫣

From birth he’s always been a happy, content and independent baby. I never co-slept or contact napped, he was a baby that was always held either. Right up until this I could leave him playing with his toys for ages and get jobs done it was the best. What has changed?!

Pov: you get married in 2027, already have a 3 year old, would you take them on the "honeymoon"?

I think we should treat the honeymoon as a family holiday and all go together. My fiancé thinks it should just be the two of us. Thoughts?

1st birthday

What is everyone doing for their little ones 1st birthday? Im still undecided
I really wanted to throw a party for her but half of my relatives don’t like each other and there will only be about 3 other relatives kids of older ages so theres a big age gap compared to a 1 year old so i would need something to occupy those cant just hire a soft play unfortunately
What is everyone else doing??

Anyone have a husband like this?

I work 2 full time jobs, pay all my own bills including buying all the stuff for my child that he steps parents. The only thing he pays for is rent (I pay utilities) and car insurance. I pay for everything else. Well, I just found out that he makes $20k a month. He brags to his friends that he pays for all my bills and takes care of my child ALL the time. All he does is pick him up from daycare (because it’s close to his work) and occasionally puts him to bed.

Everything we do has to benefit him in some way. We can never do anything I want to do without him throwing a tantrum like a child. He even goes to every work event with me, every hangout, I’m never alone unless I’m physically at work but he’ll randomly just show up to see what I’m doing. I’ve gotten to the point where everything gets to me emotionally and I’m on edge - I can’t even talk to him about my work day anymore without him bitching, I don’t have friends and when I make friends he hates all them and think they’re using me to find men. He tells everyone I’m crazy and need to be on medication even though he’s the one that’s been making me feel this way.

I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. The economy sucks, I don’t get child support and I have so much debt from our wedding because I had to take loans out. (He only paid for the venue)

Please any advice.