What birth control do yall recommend

I’ve been with my husband 13 years and have used “pullout” method bc we didn’t really care if we accidentally got pregnant, which we never did without trying . but now that we’re about to welcome our second child this month, i KNOW I don’t wanna get pregnant anytime soon. I’m trying to figure out BC .I’m just scared of the risk of depression (I don’t have a history of it just anxiety but the idea scares me) and I’m scared of the weight gain bc I’m already a plump lady 😅💕 idk what do yall recommend? I’m leaning towards copper IUD but my sisters IUD fell out twice so I’m worried about that now too 😳

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in our community

Gay relationships or transgender people being mentioned/ shown in children shows and movies

Are you uncomfortable with the topic of either being in children’s books or shows?

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RTW- Maternity Policy

I’m supposed to be returning to work in June however, don’t know if I want to yet. I’ve read in my maternity work policy that if I was entitled to enhanced maternity pay as well as statutory (which I was), if I leave my job while on maternity leave or within 3 months of being back then I will have to pay the enhanced maternity pay back to the company. Has anyone else experienced this and how do the payments work please?

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Help ladies he wants to get me a toy

So he sent me a pic and told me pick since he won’t be here for 2 weeks 😂😂😂 and honestly I’m very broke so why not 😂😂 what should I get 😜😜😜 I just had rose but not really satisfying anymore 😂😂

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Are you ladies bothered by your man having many female friends that are apparently as neutral as their male friends?

He’s had most of these female friends long before I met him so it’s not that I want him to discontinue their friendship, I just wish he wouldn’t text them often and such. I don’t believe he hangs out with them or at least not like one on one.. should I just chill and not be insecure? Side note, I did see only one conversation where they were not romantic per se but flirtatious..

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BetterHelp

Are you using it? Have you ever been in therapy? Are you for or against it for any particular reason?

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Curious

When connections are made on here who should message first?

1. The person who said yes 1st
2. The 2nd person who made the connection official

I have been wondering this because I personally feel like it should be the person who made the connection official. But maybe I'm wrong.

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