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I used it and the therapist didn't turn up twice. She then emailed after with some BS excuse about not having Internet, but I was an online teacher at the time so I recognised that lie at least. When it's your job, then you use your mobile data or go somewhere that does have Internet! Never bothered again after that

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I would be cautious using that. I’ve heard that pretty much anyone can sign up to be a “therapist” on there and the majority don’t actually hold any qualifications.

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I use it. I wanted to be paired with specifically a Christian therapist & that's what I got. I have a great therapist now that I was initially doing weekly sessions with but now only whenever I need ☺️ i also got 30% off during Maternity leave because I was on lower pay.

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I use a real therapy company. I prefer in person

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I wouldn’t use it. It just seems to be everywhere and that gives me the impression it’s probably got loads of crappy therapists on there. My cousin and uncle are counsellors and pick up clients on Better Help as well as having their own business, and they’re both freaks, especially my uncle. He’s just a dirty pervert and he uses his client’s stories around the dinner table to humble brag.

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In 2023 it came out that they pay therapists well below market rates, and the FTC reported that BetterHelp shared sensitive user information (including health questionnaires and email addresses) with third parties,

Idk if any of that has changed, but regardless I prefer in office sessions. I don’t even like doing sessions over the phone with my typical therapist

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I need genuine advice whether I’m being crazy.

BD wants to take our baby who will be 12 months at the time abroad to meet his family in Georgia. He currently has her every Sunday, she’s not even been round there overnight yet. This is due to drug charges and other reasons I won’t get into.

We don’t have a court order it is informal arrangent. I have done everything myself for the past 9 months, from sleepless nights, breastfeeding to weaning. I am the primary caregiver.

I am so filled with anxiety at the thought of her being without me for a week let alone abroad?! He’s kicked off and said I’m being unreasonable and it’s not fair.

Is this normal or what? Asking me for reasons why I’m not ok with that?

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Do yall think 🤔 that texting other men/women online is consider cheating? Or do you think cheating is just physical and texting?

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Am I the only one..?

Am I the only one that, sometimes, stop myself from saying something because if the other person has a different skin colour than me I fear they might take criticism as racism?

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Am i a shitty mom

My son is about to be 9 months, and we currently live with his dad in a duplex. He doesnt work. If he does he works maybe 3 days and finds an excuse to quit. He says its not worth his time for what they pay. I work sunday through friday 5 am to 1:30 and i cant make ends meet. When i was on maternity leave he let bills rack up crazy and i had to use my whole retun to pay off the bills. And now ik the asshole because we obly jave about 200 dollars till i get paid again on the 18th. This is what he had to say when i complained that we wouldnt have had to use all of my return of he wouldve ketp a job that was perfect for our schedule and for our commute. He quit the job because they obly paid him 18/hr and he wasnt gonna do the job pf a machine for soemone who smokes a vape( he hates people who vape and his manager was doing so). Am i a shitty mom if i take my son away from his dad and run to harbor house? I just cant keep with financial abuse. I try everything to keep us above water and he just spits in my face about it.

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Does anyone else ever feel like the “disposable” friend?

Like you show up, you care deeply, you try to be there for people… but the moment you can’t give 100%, it’s like your value drops. Like you’re only needed when you’re strong, available, and pouring into everyone else. I’m the kind of person who responds quickly and will continuously be there. I just feel like it’s not reciprocated…

I guess I’m just wondering… how do you know the difference between outgrowing a friendship and just going through a rough spot?

Would love to hear from anyone who’s felt this way 🖤

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Am I wrong

Sometimes I wanna tell my fiance to go eat out someone else since I'm tired or go have intercourse with someone else wrong for that🤔

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