I'm going from a working mama to a stay at home Mama. And I feel like I'm not gonna be able to deal with it. How does you stay at home Mamas keep your sanity? Give me advice... I feel like I'm going to be bored like while the kids are at school and fall into depression. But I want to adapt... And put myself on schedule....hmmm give me some advice y'all š¤š„¹ā¤ļø how do you cope ?
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Iāve been home since I was 17wks pregnant. My child isnāt school aged yet but we get outside every day. We go to the zoo, aquarium, mall, playground, grocery stores etc
I get out walking every day and go to the gym 3-4x a week
I just do whatever I did prior to having my son. Just including him is the only difference

Honestly, enjoy it. If you have the opportunity to be a sahm thats awesome. I quit my job when my baby was born and shes 11 months now. But prior to that I was working remote so I was used to being at home for almost 7 years total.
Its tricky at first but once you realize that there's so many different things you can do its kind of awesome. As long as you have the financial support and not have to stress that aspect of it. I wake up early every day, clean and keep busy. But now that my baby is getting older and more independent I started gardening, I take care of our pets and plants, I picked up sewing, you can get into art of some sort, go out to group meets and play dates. Theres lots of businesses now that have indoor playgrounds for kids you can go and mingle with other moms. Honestly I dont care to work ever again as long as im raising kids and i dont have to lol

Okay thank you !!!! I will get my routine down... ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø

Bored is something I donāt think youāll experience. If the kids are at school youāll find time to do the things that youāve been putting off, prep for the next day, meal prep, housework, laundry, groceries, self care like workouts showers longer than 5 min., projects you want to work on, Meeting up with other moms with your schedule is crucial!
If theyāre at home trust you wonāt be bored! So many kids activities to set up at home and different things to take them to see outside the home. Think field trip everyday but simple could be a Fieldtrip to see what a cashier does, how many different types of plants they can collect a sample of from a confined area (that way you can make sure thereās no poison oak/ ivy, my up with moms with kids to do play dates.
So many things I left out

Have a routine, plan things to do through out the week rota. Library, museum, soft play, park etc.

I think you will be fine. I had similar fears about being on maternity leave, but once I built up a nice routine of activities, I am nearly never bored (we make sure we go out every day, either for scheduled baby+mum activities or just for walks+coffee, and house chores and play time usually passes quite smoothly around that).
Having said that, I know it's different being on maternity leave and ft stay at home mum long term. But I do think that same principles will apply, more or less.

Do you have hobbies? If not find things you like to do.
My husband and I have recently come abroad with our baby to meet his parents and family. We have been here 1 day and he has gone out drinking with his friends. I wouldnāt mind usually except he came home at 8:30pm drunk looking for a bottle of alcohol. His mum enables him and they were opening every cupboard imaginable and making so much noise that he woke our baby up. Our baby who hasnāt slept today due to the amount of visitors we have had. He then got his drink and left again. He left the room in such a mess as well. He didnāt even apologise for waking our child up showing he doesnāt care at all.
Iām fed up because we have come to see his family and introduce our baby. I donāt speak the language either so thereās a barrier. Most of them are telling me what to do (using arm gestures etc so we understand each other) and Iām lonely. Itās not a break or holiday for me. I enjoy myself more at home. I know while Iām here Iāll just be stuck inside at home every day and that isnāt what I want for me and my baby.
I feel like I want out of my marriage. Am I wrong with how I feel? x
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Hi, I'm wondering if anyone's son has experienced testicle/penis pain as a toddler? My 2 year old son has been commenting on his penis hurting at night but he hasn't seemed like he was in pain so I wondered if it was just discomfort with his diaper because he's showing signs of readiness for potty training.
The last day he has been showing signs that he's in pain and saying it hurts under his penis (assuming his testicles).
Wondering if I should take him in or if this is normal? My older son has never had any pain complaints but I know every child is different so it may be normal for some kids?
He's not circumcized if that matters and he's not having any other symptoms other than the pain
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So I am a 38 year old female with 3 kids and one being autistic. My two youngestās dad says he wants more kids with me. I told him no I donāt want anymore kids. I had so much complications with my last son had to have an emergency c section. I am still having so much pain and still have pain from the c-section after 6 years they sued up a piece of my uterus wall when they were closing me back up. So now heās mad at me because I said no I donāt want anymore kids. Like am I tripping cause Iām standing ten toes down on not having anymore kids .
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Seems like alot of women go through the same thing it's basically normalised..I'm so tired of complaining about this or even trying to get through to my partner. Basically the constant work load of the home.. the mess the clutter the picking up after everyone else I just dont know what to do anymore or what to think.. I'm not working so that's what I tell myself to keep me sane.. it's not that serious coz he's working and tired. But it's so much deeper than that, just because he works should I have to pick up after him like ine of my kids.. its not changing I've voiced this again and again and I'm done. At the end of the day it really is affecting mental health because I feel I can't keep up and therefore like a failure. Sorry for the rant, any advice? X
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Any mums give their 4 month old babies any food like puree or pouches?

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Milk cups 1 year old.
What cups/bottles are we using for our 1 year olds for their milk?! Recommendations welcomed please āŗļø
Thankyou
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