Sex Pregnant vs postpartum
The BEST sex of my life happened the month before my baby was born. With other partners I was rarely interested in sex & with my partner now I love them dearly but sex is just…hard. But while pregnant sex was so easy. I could easily receive without getting u. My head.
Although I have a very high sex drive & deep desire for sex. He is the best sex I ever had but I am worried postpartum I won’t be able to have the sex drive I had pregnant. (backwards yes i know haha)
I genuinely want to get my rocks off like before & please this man but I am so so so nervous. He’s been overseas & comes home in 4 months. Please help 😭
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Are you worried about PPD being the reason the sex drive will decrease or the recovery? From my personal experience my sex drive either remained the same or increased after I had my baby. Try interacting differently to encourage sex such as role play or toys. It may help with your sex drive and his if you have a shared kink of some sort!
After i had my first bub it took 2 years for me to get my sex drive back. After my second a few months and I’ve only just had my third so can’t comment on that key
The best sex of my life was also when I was pregnant. To the point my first ever orgasm w 4m pregnant w my second baby w the same man 😂 meaning all that time we had sex before my 2nd pregnancy I’ve never orgasmed yet. It came spontaneously out of the blue I couldn’t control my body that it squirted in the same session lol he was so shocked he was like “👀👀 can you do that..again?!” 😂😂 since then I’ve been trying to replicate it and now I orgasm 3-4* a session but it’s just funny that my first one ever was when I was pregnant.
Then my 3rd baby a boy I had a high sex drive all throughout and it didn’t go PP, it’s here to stay even through BF. So for some women it stays high PP
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