Do Real friends exist?

I honestly can say I’m truly hurting today. I’m always the person that reaches out,check on others,give my last no matter what I have going on. To go from have friends supporting you during pregnancy, being there for you, there after baby is born to just dipping is heartbreaking and really hurts. I may not be able to go every
Where all the time but you can still invite me. It’s crazy to me how people just up n leave like it’s nothing. I’ve tried to make new friends but honestly it’s not easy after being hurt so much I’m truly tired of the friendship hurt 😭💔

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Hey girl I feel u. I have a hard time trusting women and the same. Message me anytime

Oh momma🥺 if we lived closer I’d go hang out and be with you thru it all.

Real friends exist you just gotta find them and sadly as we get older the harder it is to find real ones 😭 im always down to make new friends shoot me a message!!

Sweet girl I can completely empathize with you. You are not alone. Being an adult can really bite sometimes, but becoming a mama makes it that much harder. Friendship is hard, honestly sometimes I feel like it's harder than marriage. Today has been a hard day for me as well, I don't have anyone to talk to, yes my husband but today, today I couldn't talk to him. I don't live close but I'm down for messaging and talking to. Hugs from afar!

Hey girl you can add me on IG sorry to hear. Username is @graycii.luv

I’m not local but always down to text if you need someone to talk to 🫶🏽 making friends as an adult is hard especially as an exhausted and emotionally drained mom 😮‍💨 (speaking for myself)

Girl I feel you. My friend wanted me to have a girl so she dipped on me when she found out it was a boy. I have no one. I go to work and come home. No parents. No friends. No one

Hey hun , message me, let’s exchange numbers

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Do I look ugly or something because every time I start or think I am making a friend I get blocked or ghost is anyone else feel like or is it just me

How can I share this with my husband?

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