Which food did your baby try first? I’m thinking about doing all vegetables first. Or should I do every other day? Let me know what you ladies did! My baby is 4 months + 1 week and just started plain oatmeal with breast milk yesterday 🥰 I’m so excited to let him try flavors soon!
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I would do veggie one day and then wait until day 3 to add a fruit plus give that same veggie with it too for comfort

Meat stock and meats lol. Also bone marrow, egg yolks, lots of animal foods. I like Kate Pope @ wildnutritionist on IG for first baby foods! She’s a GAPS practitioner and helps parents protect babies’ guts when introducing solids, since their gut lining isn’t fully developed. Carnivore baby for the win (with some fermented veg thrown in there lol) 💪 and now I don’t have to worry about him not liking meat/veggies

I’m just curious, In the UK we wean at 6 months, are your guidelines different in the US ?

We did BLW with both but I also did purées we’d mainly start with veggies and then try a fruit. We’d try a meat occasionally but they hated the puree meat.

Is your baby meeting the readiness signs for solids? If not, please wait until they are sitting up, bringing hands to mouth, etc. it’s outdated advice to start at 4 months. You dont need to alternate fruits and veggies when you do start solids. Rather, you need to focus on only introducing one common allergen at a time. You also don’t need to focus on only serving vegetables and avoiding fruits to prevent a sweet tooth. This is another myth!

I know its not a veggie but I made some baby quinoa cereal to start solids, also did mashed avacado

We started with pumpkin :)
I'm 3 months postpartum and my partner expects me to spend more time with his family when he's not there because he's working.
There have been comments made from his mum to him and then passed on to me that they expected me to make more of an effort with them. Honestly, it's overwhelming and added pressure and awkwardness. I get on with them fine but the relationship feels forced and they are coming to see the baby and not for me, am I wrong for not wanting this? My partner and i had a argument because he doesnt understand how its fine for my family to visit, i tried to explain the dynamics are different and as much as my family want to see the baby they come to visit to check in and give support to me! Has anyone else dealt with these expectations, and how did you handle it?
I now feel awkward, pressured and alot of guilt on my shoulders because they're 'not seeing the baby enough to bond'. Now cant get it out of my mind and want to see if I am in the wrong for not wanting them over much and prefer to keep it to when my partner is around.
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On Instagram your seeing all these post about husbands doing all the cooking, cleaning, food shop and looking after the other kids and allowing you to sleep, rest and focus on caring for the new baby..
Is this even possible. My husband helps but im still doing everything like usual. Im cooking all our meals, mowed the garden yesterday, hoover daily wash and hang the clothes outside. He is making our toddlers packed lunch for nursery and does the food shop but other than that everything is our usual. I havent had this waited on hand and food situation I see on socials 🤣😅😬
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Having to ask permission from my partner to go have a bath on a Sunday is insane. Yet he walks out the house when he likes to go smoke or plays on his laptop when he likes without a care in the world.
Told him to put the baby on the playmat so he can kick around his answer well all he does is cry and I hate the sound of him crying. It’s consuming…
Bear in mind football is on at 4:30pm and I’m gonna have to cook dinner and do bedtime routine.
Sorry just need a rant.
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I’m really struggling what to do I need advice or someone to talk to it’s killing me.
Couple months ago my baby dad went out he said he wouldn’t be back late and I told him not to do drugs as I don’t like it and we have a family anyway he didn’t come home till the next day as he was going drugs till silly o’clock in the morning. I had a discussion with him about it saying it upsets me etc saying sorry I won’t do it aged then another couple he did the exact same thing again
On Friday night he went out for a couple hours then came home at 12 in the morning on drugs yet again and somehow it’s all my fault it’s me doing wrong he doesn’t see the wrong in his actions and that he’s hurting me doing it.
Am I over reacting or have I a right ?
He doesn’t help me with our baby at all
Yesterday he spent all day in bed didn’t come see our daughter never mind me .
I put my all into been a mum don’t get help and just get walked all over I don’t know how much I can take i rlly love him and I don’t want a broken family but he’s hurting me doing this all the time l.
His doing but I’m gonna have to be the one who says sorry and try sort it out
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I’m a complete laugh. I don’t know what to do. I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant with our second child. It’s been difficult for me to cook and look at food so we’ve been eating out quite a bit tonight. My fiancé felt the need to say I’m always asking for something and I expressed him. What do you mean he said food outside food he said this is a luxury in so many words and I’m ungrateful. He feels that being a SAHM is a job in so many ways . I constantly have to ask for things such as household items things for our daughter. I don’t get my hair done or my nails or feet . At this point I feel so uncomfortable asking for anything. And to add he said I could get a job . Idk what to do.

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I am confused as to how there are so many parents letting there little ones play games rated for kids twice their age. Does it not concern you how this will affect your kiddo long term? What is it doing to their development?
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