How many sexual partners have you had?

I’m in a community where it’s normal to wait until marriage, meaning that myself and many of my friends have only ever had one partner. I’m curious what people outside my bubble have experienced.

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The fact that your top number specifically listed was 4 makes me feel reaaaal promiscuous over here 😅🙃

No no, I didn't think you were it just was like a moment where I caught my reflection real quick and was caught off guard but just shook it off kinda thing. Like I don't even remember the number to be honest but I for sure surpassed 4 before I graduated high school

At least 10. After I was sexually assaulted in high school, having sex with some I found attractive became a way to “reclaim” my body. Wish I would’ve known better coping mechanisms as a younger girl, but what’s done is done.

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How would you feel

I was abused throughout my pregnancy by the child's father , it got so bad he kicked me to the ground in the streets . I chipped my tooth and u started having contractions luckily I didn't go into labor.
Yes police was called he was locked up for four months .
Fast forward the child has been born he only comes around when he feels like it and has never provided for the child.

I want him out our lives what should I do ??

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Friends

Anyone want to be friends? Ive had very little luck on this app. Looking for friends that can hold conversations!

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Sex Pregnant vs postpartum

The BEST sex of my life happened the month before my baby was born. With other partners I was rarely interested in sex & with my partner now I love them dearly but sex is just…hard. But while pregnant sex was so easy. I could easily receive without getting u. My head.

Although I have a very high sex drive & deep desire for sex. He is the best sex I ever had but I am worried postpartum I won’t be able to have the sex drive I had pregnant. (backwards yes i know haha)

I genuinely want to get my rocks off like before & please this man but I am so so so nervous. He’s been overseas & comes home in 4 months. Please help 😭

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So drained How do people cope??

I am exhausted. I have a 22 month old who is super active and doesn’t leave me alone. I’m running the house, cooking, cleaning, washing, main caregiver to my child, working mom, and doing a side business, juggling my family and my in-laws.

I am shattered. How do people cope? I feel I have 0 time to myself. My body aches.

Anyone have any tips on how to juggle everything and actually have a day or an evening to myself ??

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Help

4 weeks pp and all I want is sex!!! Am I safe to try or do I try and wait it out😩😩

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Pelvic Floor Exercises

My husband and I did the deed for the first time since I had our second baby and I can just tell I am just not as tight down there and it immediately humbled me🥲🥲

Are there any recommendations on a good YouTube video/channel that has pelvic floor exercises I can start doing??

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