Tubes tied

I’m a 24 year old mom with a almost two year old and I have a obgyn appointment on the 9th of this month and I need help and any advice on how to talk and ask my obgyn on getting my tube’s removed or tied I’m very firm and very adamant about this I have thought about this since after giving birth to my two year old if anybody has gotten this done especially in Ohio please any advice will be great.

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I feel like no one wants to meet my baby

Today was supposed to be the day part of my extended family meets my baby for the first time. She’s only met her grandparents, aunts, and uncle. But I found out yesterday that Easter get together was being canceled so they can go to some kids birthday party. All their kids are grown, so it’s weird to me that it’s a priority for them. Theirs been no other discussion about meeting her before the next family event (4th of July, she’ll already be 6 months old then). No other family on either side has contacted me or my husband about getting together to meet her besides my grandma. Am I supposed to be reaching out to them? No one’s even said anything to me since I’ve given birth. Idk if I’m over thinking this and I’m still just very hormonal, but I feel hurt. I don’t know what to do. I just want to do more things with my baby now that she’s 3 months old, including meeting all the people I care about. Any advice would be great, I’m not the best at communicating.
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Lube recommendations

Can anyone recommend a good lube? We tried one other night (durex) and it made my partner go floppy!!!

5 months postpartum..

I’ve gained a lot of weight and my body is stiff from carrying my baby all the time. I am told by everyone to get fit again but I’m struggling to figure out where I can squeeze a workout in? The only real window I can do something for myself is in the evening but I’d rather put my feet up for a bit than workout. How is everyone’s fitness journey going? Has anyone started? And if so, how are you implementing it?

Partner not lasting

Every time me and my partner have sex roughly once a week he lasts about 10 seconds and it’s staring to bug me now as I don’t get any pleasure from it at all . Does anyone have experience of this and know why this happens ? He doesn’t want to talk about it so the issue isn’t getting resolved .

Anyone else

Hi all I’m 23 and growing up I always wanted a baby I had to look after my nephew when I around 17 when he was a new born so then it made me want a child even more , I was to trying two years to get pregnant then I finally did he’s now 7 months and I wanted nothing more to be a mom but ever since I have been I feel like I’m struggling I constantly tired the dad doesn’t help me and I just feel alone even tho I have other family members that help when/where they can just wanna know if anyone else had this feeling

YOOOO

just bored. looking for a friend to talk to... preferably someone that talks back 😭🤣