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Hi all I’m 23 and growing up I always wanted a baby I had to look after my nephew when I around 17 when he was a new born so then it made me want a child even more , I was to trying two years to get pregnant then I finally did he’s now 7 months and I wanted nothing more to be a mom but ever since I have been I feel like I’m struggling I constantly tired the dad doesn’t help me and I just feel alone even tho I have other family members that help when/where they can just wanna know if anyone else had this feeling

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I always wanted a baby forever. I had him at 21 and realised that what I had expected, I wasn't getting. I thought babies sleep through the night at the some point, still my 2 year old wakes 3/6 times. I thought my family would visit every few weeks but absolutely no one has. It's super hard to just feel alone, tired and disappointed in motherhood when it's not what you expected. I really like my boy tho he's the best person I've ever met and I don't feel so bad now since he talks and we have the best time together, I'm still not allowed to wash up or cook or shower tho or he'll scream.

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