am i crazy!
i want another baby but don’t know when, i don’t want to “start again” i have three toddlers…i already struggle so it’s silly to think of now i guess
but eventually i want another one i just don’t want to start having a baby when my children are grown and old enough it’ll feel like im at the start line again would it be a bad idea has anyone else ever “started again”
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I have a 15, 14 and nearly 12 year old a i also have a 3 year old and 1 year old at first I was like what am I doing but wouldnt change it for the world now yes some days can be hard but they older ones help me look after them when im busy or cooking
Honestly I have 3 under 4’a all one after the other and now I’m having my 4th right after my 3rd because I just absolutely do not want to start again and get pregnant later. After the 4th I’m all done so works for me. I’ll take all the struggles it comes with tbh
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If you could live your life again with the same knowledge you have now, would you choose to have children?
Take out of the equation who your children are.
I had such a blessed life before children. And I feel like overall, I’m definitely a more stressed, angry and sad person than I was before. If I knew what I knew now, I don’t think I would do it. I know that sounds really harsh but I think the people who decide not to have kids are the ones who have really done their research and had proper hands on experience dealing with kids for extended periods of time.
I think you’d be lying if you didn’t have this thought before, even just got a fleeting second of your life….
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Why is it so hard
Why is TTC the most mentally draining thing😭 I wish I could just be excited to be trying and for what I hope is to come in the future but it has taken over every thought I have
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Anyone else super shattered and nauseous in 3-5 weeks pregnancy?
Wow I started feeling huge fatigue and nausea at 10 dpo, I’m 12 dpo and I can’t remember feeling it this early last pregnancy I had with my son. Anyone else feeling it super early on? I know it can be very normal. I’ve got a full on but rewarding job driving around schools doing Music Therapy and mental health support and I’m wondering how much I’ll need to step back on and how soon. Going to take it day by day week by week!
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Inconclusive scan
Anyone help I’m a nervous wreck I don’t know what to think as I thought I was further and would see something as I tested negative on the 16th September and then positive on the 18th September and LMP was the 18th August I’m worried I’m miscarrying
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Is this negative?
Is this a negative test?
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PCOS and IVF
Anyone around 32 years old with PCOS and do IVF? Just decided to proceed with doing IVF and my doctor recommends a frozen transfer since I have PCOS and at an increased risk for OHSS. Anyone have any advice or success stories for me?!
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