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So Im in a situation where Im best friends with someone online we’ve never met but have been friends for three years anyways we used to talk like everyday and play on the game together everyday, she was in a relationship and left that relationship and her apt with him to be with another man and they shortly moved in together. During that time I was a bit harsh on her for what actions she was taking as I didn’t agree with it. Since then we don’t talk as much and since she’s been with her new guy she always tells me she’s been busy at work, but whenever I talk to her she’s doing something with him or on the game with him. I feel like at this point Im begging for her friendship because I am always first to text/check up. It’ll be weeks and she doesn’t check on me. As well as sometimes she doesn’t respond or responds super late/never just holds a convo for more than 5 mins. It’s honestly hurting my feelings I don’t have a lot of friends and I’m sensitive so I tend to take things personally.

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Was she insensitive to ask me for money in this situation?

I’m currently on maternity leave but returning to work soon. My baby is 1. Recently my eldest 10 year old daughter was rushed to hospital after seizures and cardiac arrest, we were in hospital for 5 days. I told my friend about it once we got discharged from hospital. I told her the whole story which is quite traumatic. 2 days later (so today) this same friend messaged me without asking how I am or how my daughter is first, and asks me for money. I told her I couldn’t lend her any due to being on maternity leave still and she responded with “I thought you were back at work”. Mind you a few days ago she was judging me for sending my baby to nursery and going to work, and said she wouldn’t be doing this with her baby and that she’ll be a SAHM and her husband will pay for the bills. (I have no issues with SAHM but she came across judgemental for my decision to go back to work).

Is it unfair of me to not let my child go to his father’s house alone?

So I am 8 weeks postpartum with my first child. My child’s father and I broke up around 3-5 days after he was born, we were only together for about 11 months. I tried my entire pregnancy to get closer to him and his family but was always met with pushback. After we broke up I tried to talk about how I felt, he told me he didn’t want to talk anymore and only wanted to speak about the baby.

A week and two days after my son was born I was rushed to the hospital for losing too much blood. I had a D&C and stayed in the hospital for two days. During the night after I came to in the hospital, he had been texting the whole day asking how the baby was doing. I can’t remember exactly what the conversation was but I remember saying I would let him know something after I got discharged in the morning. He proceeded to get upset that I didn’t let him know I was in the hospital and wanted to come take the baby. My family was with me in the hospital and he told me to only talk about the baby so I didn’t feel the need to let him know (also almost died lol). After this he started coming to see the baby for about 80 minutes each week, mostly being on his phone while holding the sleeping baby. His family came and saw us in the hospital when I gave birth for about 10 minutes. (They came, picked up the baby, huddled in a circle, took a photo of the grandfather with the baby then left) we saw his family three days after I told him to go home. There was a tense conversation that happened and that was how i learned we were broken up. His mother had to say it lol there was never a proper conversation between the two of us. He had also been caught in a lie by me but then lied to my face when I confronted him. Later her brought those things up and said he knew what he was doing.

Recently we have been discussing when the baby can see his parents. He asked if i would let our two month old go over there alone. Baby is exclusively breastfeeding and most used to me of course. I am not trying to keep the baby away from them but I feel like they have an issue with me. My thinking is if you don’t like the mom by proxy you will treat the child unfairly especially if I am not there. Also not willing to combo feed cause he is already sensitive to things I eat. I don’t feel comfortable with leaving him there alone until he starts speaking. I do not trust his father.

Thanks for reading I just needed to get that out and look for some advice.

Sex …

Sorry for the tmi girls but are we back to having the same amount as sex pre baby?! I have absolutely no interest, I’m knackered and couldn’t think of any thing worse but my partner is now getting frustrated with me.

I need a job..

I need a job from home. I don't have a car. My boyfriend is the one who works. But we are in debt and living paycheck to paycheck. We have to borrow money when he gets paid because he was irresponsible. I miss working and making money SO MUCH! I need guaranteed safety money. Please please please help me.

8 months pregnant and my boyfriend hasn't told his kids

I (26) and my boyfriend (35) accidentally got pregnant after only knowing each other for 2 months. I think he's the perfect boyfriend, small gestures, grand gestures, wants to have the hard talks to improve our relationship, ex. However he's rather on and off with me. We will have 3-6 weeks of a good steady relationsip before he needs space that will last 1 day to couple weeks.
Fast forward to today and I am now 8 months pregnant and despite him showing much excitement and support for our baby he still hasn't told his other children that they will be getting a new half sibling. I've been trying to be patient about it cause I know it is a hard topic but it seems pretty late to be telling them. Any longer and it won't be you're getting a new sibling, it will be surprise their already here.

Husbands

What kind of gifts do yall get for your husband? I have no idea what to get him he kinda already has everything he wants😭