Was she insensitive to ask me for money in this situation?

I’m currently on maternity leave but returning to work soon. My baby is 1. Recently my eldest 10 year old daughter was rushed to hospital after seizures and cardiac arrest, we were in hospital for 5 days. I told my friend about it once we got discharged from hospital. I told her the whole story which is quite traumatic. 2 days later (so today) this same friend messaged me without asking how I am or how my daughter is first, and asks me for money. I told her I couldn’t lend her any due to being on maternity leave still and she responded with “I thought you were back at work”. Mind you a few days ago she was judging me for sending my baby to nursery and going to work, and said she wouldn’t be doing this with her baby and that she’ll be a SAHM and her husband will pay for the bills. (I have no issues with SAHM but she came across judgemental for my decision to go back to work).

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Curry pasties 🥐

Shredded some left over chicken thigh, used a 1/4 tin of petite pois, squeezed a little bit of curry paste and 30 mls of water together and made a curry mixture for the pasties!

Very tasty! I used Pataks curry paste and it taste so lovely! It has salt in this paste (3.7g in 100 MLS but I literally used a tiny squeeze). You could make a salt friendly one if you wanted. 😋

Clingy or obsessive guy

Im Speaking to a male not in a relationship the content of his messages kinda raised alarms bells he sent a message saying "im stuck with him now" on past messages then I got a message from him a few weeks ago asking "what i was doing" i replied a hour later saying i was going getting my medication.... he sent a message now because im ignoring him saying "you gone to not messaging me back for days on end now again" hes either clingy or obsessive all because im ignoring him 🙄what do people think

Tell us what inspired you on your Job/career choices?

I've been a stay at home mum for awhile. I'm turning 40 this year!🤦‍♀️😂
My youngest is 9 years old.
I'm interested in retail merchandise type of jobs but have no experience. I want to be able to make sales happen through visual merchandising, product displays, have product knowledge and be able to provide good customer service.

How did you start from nothing and no experience to get you to where you are at with your job choice?
👉I'm interested in learning a thing or two from your comments.🥰

Masturbating

So my boyfriend took a new job where he's going to be out of town for a couple weeks at a time. He lives watching me touch myself but honestly I prefer him touching me I really don't even like masturbating. So I know he's going to want a video which honest I don't have a problem sending but is there a way for me to enjoy it more. Maybe I just don't know what I'm doing 🤦🏼‍♀️I know that a lot to ask someone but I need to know how to pleasure myself before he leaves 😭

British Airways - Fit To Fly!

We are flying on Monday with British Airways (long haul to Caribbean) I will be 29 weeks! Midwife said I’m fit to fly and all good etc, but would not supply fit to fly as they do not do it neither does my doctor! So I got a private one, has anyone flown recently with them and is that all that will be needed?

Thanks so much in advance! 🤍

Feeling lonely….

Anyone else found that the friends that you thought would be there for you when you had a baby, actually haven’t been?
Realising now how lonely I am, and how maternity leave is totally different to what I had hoped it would be… just me and the baby on coffee dates and lake walks alone most of the time