Im Speaking to a male not in a relationship the content of his messages kinda raised alarms bells he sent a message saying "im stuck with him now" on past messages then I got a message from him a few weeks ago asking "what i was doing" i replied a hour later saying i was going getting my medication.... he sent a message now because im ignoring him saying "you gone to not messaging me back for days on end now again" hes either clingy or obsessive all because im ignoring him 🙄what do people think
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That sounds unhealthy and I think you'll be dodging a bullet to ignore him and stop responding to him. He sounds like he's trying to be controlling, putting pressure on you to respond to him.

Looks like red flags to me - possessive and obsessive. I would stop seeing him tbh

Me and my partner joke we are stuck with each other and if you ignore him for days its not obsessive he just wants the same commitment hes giving .
Just as you would if you messaged him then he ignored you for days

Surely he understood or understands that you have been busy and have a life.
I hope you messaged back something like...." No way I'm a very independent woman" I ain't stuck with nobody 😂

It could be that he's looking for you to entertain him when it suits him and his emotional needs.

he sounds annoying af