Feeling lonely….

Anyone else found that the friends that you thought would be there for you when you had a baby, actually haven’t been?
Realising now how lonely I am, and how maternity leave is totally different to what I had hoped it would be… just me and the baby on coffee dates and lake walks alone most of the time

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Curry pasties 🥐

Shredded some left over chicken thigh, used a 1/4 tin of petite pois, squeezed a little bit of curry paste and 30 mls of water together and made a curry mixture for the pasties!

Very tasty! I used Pataks curry paste and it taste so lovely! It has salt in this paste (3.7g in 100 MLS but I literally used a tiny squeeze). You could make a salt friendly one if you wanted. 😋

Clingy or obsessive guy

Im Speaking to a male not in a relationship the content of his messages kinda raised alarms bells he sent a message saying "im stuck with him now" on past messages then I got a message from him a few weeks ago asking "what i was doing" i replied a hour later saying i was going getting my medication.... he sent a message now because im ignoring him saying "you gone to not messaging me back for days on end now again" hes either clingy or obsessive all because im ignoring him 🙄what do people think

I don't feel like a mommy anymore

Long story short I had my baby in 2023 I took care of my child I was a stay at home gf and a stay at home mom while me and my baby daddy broke up and I had trauma and had to deal with multiple hospitalizations due to ppd ( just didn't take care of myself but was taking care of my child and focusing on my child ) well as of last year I got hospitalize again then him and my family conspired against me and basically took my child from me he basically changed his doctors changed everything (not to mention my baby daddy and now my child live 6 hours away in another state ,and I have no car no way of getting him ) he also changed all the appointments I had set for my child development he also changed my son insurance from mine to his without my permission ! I had for my had in place for my child . He worked a lot so he pays daycare to watch our child but I been out of the hospital for months now begging and pleading to see my child but he refuse and make ever excuse for me not to see my child !! He use to shit on me about not having a job and only taking care of our child when we was together and we was broken up and now he saying I didn't contribute to anything and not I'm not contribute to raising my child And sayin I don't do nothing for him now that he raising him and I'm like tf !! I just don't know what to do and I don't even feel like a mommy anymore ..

Tell us what inspired you on your Job/career choices?

I've been a stay at home mum for awhile. I'm turning 40 this year!🤦‍♀️😂
My youngest is 9 years old.
I'm interested in retail merchandise type of jobs but have no experience. I want to be able to make sales happen through visual merchandising, product displays, have product knowledge and be able to provide good customer service.

How did you start from nothing and no experience to get you to where you are at with your job choice?
👉I'm interested in learning a thing or two from your comments.🥰

Friends

Who has no friends & does nothing at all really ??? I don’t, I don’t do social media cause all the weirdos & drama. I don’t have any friends cause can’t find anyone who is nonjudgmental, kind, honest, who will check in also instead of me always doing it, who wants to actually hang out unless they live far we could video chat, who wants to cook together through phone haha I don’t know.

British Airways - Fit To Fly!

We are flying on Monday with British Airways (long haul to Caribbean) I will be 29 weeks! Midwife said I’m fit to fly and all good etc, but would not supply fit to fly as they do not do it neither does my doctor! So I got a private one, has anyone flown recently with them and is that all that will be needed?

Thanks so much in advance! 🤍