Have i normalised bad behaviour?

Hey all, today i reversed the car a little too much while trying to get out of tight parking and ended up scratching the car.

We have 2 cars, i drive the bigger one as im pregnant and its a lot more confortable right now.

My first thought was "shit, hes gonna be so mad! I fucked up" Now im stressed to tell him.

I wanted to ask, is this really normal? Should i be freaking out about telling my husband? I feel like a child, but hes not my parent. Surely its not normal to feel this way about your spouse? Have i just grown to believe this is normal?

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These fucking kids 😭😂 anyone else have a kid that sees anyone else enjoying a meal and needs to open mouth cough on it?

Every.single.time.

Rant, am I being over sensitive??

Am I being over sensitive? My little is 4 months old and he's the first grandbaby on my husband side so understandable they are very excited. However, I don't know whether I'm being just very picky and unfair.. when my in laws are holding the baby I get very over protective, rhey walk around with it to other rooms so I dont always have my eyes on him & feel a little separation anxiety. For example the other day my FIL returned from holiday so my baby was with him for a little bit and he feel asleep, I said to him I'll take the baby back and put him down and he said no no that's okay I will hold him and I was unable to take him back so didn't have him for the hour. I felt a bit lost and annoyed.

When my parents have him and he falls asleep they put him down and I can see him. Or when he cries they hand him back to me but my in lawss don't do that.

To me it's my baby and I would want him
Back whenever I want to. I know they don't have much time with him as he goes down to sleep early and they work so they are excited but part of me feels a little resentful. For example my family showers him with gifts all the time (i know it's not about the gifts etc) but they don't get him anything. My sil didn't even wish me for my first mothers days but then my husband will expect me to get her things for her bday etc (I am a gifter & love putting things together for people) but I'm a little annoyed that she didn't bother to even wish me for Mother's Day or get me even a card for my bday. I am tempted not to get anything for her bday but then I don't wan her or hubby to feel any way as I go out for my siblings (as they always go out there way for me)!& have been getting things from my little one to them. Am I just being over sensitive ?

How can i convince my husband?

Hello, im a mother of 2 (8 and 3 years old) both from different fathers and i just recently got married; long story short my husband was always putting out there he wants to have kids (he loves them btw) and as crazy as the idea sounded to me i felt like i dont want to have more kids, my body bounced back pretty nice (im 5’8 140lbs) i dont feel insecure at all, i feel like postpartum has being totally over and i dont want to go back to it, finding myself out again after 2 kids felt like forever and i really dont want to go through it again. How can i convince him not to have more kids?

Marriage falling apart after kids? 😢

The last 3 and a half years I have spent either pregnant or breastfeeding and co sleeping with my kids breastfeeding throughout the night. My husbands taken over and he takes the kids to sleep every night now and instead of me breastfeeding my youngest all night I now sleep in a separate room alone. My husband co sleeps with them and she sleeps so much better with him. With me she’d constantly be waking up for milk. I get to sleep better but the whole sleeping in different bedrooms to my husbands been so weird it’s been over a month now of me sleeping alone and something just doesn’t feel right. Feels like so much distance between us.

How much quality time per day are you spending with a one year old baby?

Hi! I am a new mom, and my little girl is a little over one year old now. I am just curious… if you are in a similar phase of life, how much QUALITY time do you spend with your baby each day? This is anything other than meeting basic needs like nursing/feeding, bathing, putting to sleep, etc. Think: time spent reading books, playing with toys, singing songs, playing games, etc.

My little girl is NOT an independent play gal and has always hated being restrained (baby pen/gates). She also is a fussy baby and my attention (however much or little) is never enough. She does a lot of following me around all day while I take care of chores, house projects, texts, etc. I try to include her, but I end up still feeling guilty that I am too distracted (maybe I should be, maybe I shouldn’t🤷🏼‍♀️).

Chores cant be done while she sleeps because of how frequently I have to resettle her or even hold her.

I know neither extreme (all entertainment or no interaction) is healthy. I just want to raise a “living room” kid that genuinely enjoys being around family but is capable of some independence

Thoughts???

Toilet training

Planning to start potty training, my lo will be 2 in a couple months and I’m planning to go straight to the toilet seat instead of a seperate potty, I’m just wondering if this seat is suitable to start from the get go or if I’ll need to get one of those removable potty seats, please let me know if you’ve tried these out x