Ideas for dinner for 15 months old

Hi amazing mums all over the world! Wanted to ask, what do you give your little ones for dinner? My baby is 15 months old now and we mainly eat bread with something on it. Any ideas, what I could give him? (Banana doesnt work, I think it causes him stomach problems at night..)

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Rant, am I being over sensitive??

Am I being over sensitive? My little is 4 months old and he's the first grandbaby on my husband side so understandable they are very excited. However, I don't know whether I'm being just very picky and unfair.. when my in laws are holding the baby I get very over protective, rhey walk around with it to other rooms so I dont always have my eyes on him & feel a little separation anxiety. For example the other day my FIL returned from holiday so my baby was with him for a little bit and he feel asleep, I said to him I'll take the baby back and put him down and he said no no that's okay I will hold him and I was unable to take him back so didn't have him for the hour. I felt a bit lost and annoyed.

When my parents have him and he falls asleep they put him down and I can see him. Or when he cries they hand him back to me but my in lawss don't do that.

To me it's my baby and I would want him
Back whenever I want to. I know they don't have much time with him as he goes down to sleep early and they work so they are excited but part of me feels a little resentful. For example my family showers him with gifts all the time (i know it's not about the gifts etc) but they don't get him anything. My sil didn't even wish me for my first mothers days but then my husband will expect me to get her things for her bday etc (I am a gifter & love putting things together for people) but I'm a little annoyed that she didn't bother to even wish me for Mother's Day or get me even a card for my bday. I am tempted not to get anything for her bday but then I don't wan her or hubby to feel any way as I go out for my siblings (as they always go out there way for me)!& have been getting things from my little one to them. Am I just being over sensitive ?

Marriage falling apart after kids? 😢

The last 3 and a half years I have spent either pregnant or breastfeeding and co sleeping with my kids breastfeeding throughout the night. My husbands taken over and he takes the kids to sleep every night now and instead of me breastfeeding my youngest all night I now sleep in a separate room alone. My husband co sleeps with them and she sleeps so much better with him. With me she’d constantly be waking up for milk. I get to sleep better but the whole sleeping in different bedrooms to my husbands been so weird it’s been over a month now of me sleeping alone and something just doesn’t feel right. Feels like so much distance between us.

Universal credit changes and with going back to work

Hi anyone work and partner works and receive universal credit can help me figure something out? Is it increasing because I thought we would be earning too much when I go back to work but I’ve done a calculation online and it’s showing we would still be eligible so I’m confused. If anyone can help me it would be great as I’m trying to work out childcare costs before he gets the free hours.

How can i convince my husband?

Hello, im a mother of 2 (8 and 3 years old) both from different fathers and i just recently got married; long story short my husband was always putting out there he wants to have kids (he loves them btw) and as crazy as the idea sounded to me i felt like i dont want to have more kids, my body bounced back pretty nice (im 5’8 140lbs) i dont feel insecure at all, i feel like postpartum has being totally over and i dont want to go back to it, finding myself out again after 2 kids felt like forever and i really dont want to go through it again. How can i convince him not to have more kids?

How much quality time per day are you spending with a one year old baby?

Hi! I am a new mom, and my little girl is a little over one year old now. I am just curious… if you are in a similar phase of life, how much QUALITY time do you spend with your baby each day? This is anything other than meeting basic needs like nursing/feeding, bathing, putting to sleep, etc. Think: time spent reading books, playing with toys, singing songs, playing games, etc.

My little girl is NOT an independent play gal and has always hated being restrained (baby pen/gates). She also is a fussy baby and my attention (however much or little) is never enough. She does a lot of following me around all day while I take care of chores, house projects, texts, etc. I try to include her, but I end up still feeling guilty that I am too distracted (maybe I should be, maybe I shouldn’t🤷🏼‍♀️).

Chores cant be done while she sleeps because of how frequently I have to resettle her or even hold her.

I know neither extreme (all entertainment or no interaction) is healthy. I just want to raise a “living room” kid that genuinely enjoys being around family but is capable of some independence

Thoughts???

Moving to Scotland

Hi everyone, I’d really appreciate some advice and insight.

My partner and I are planning a big move to Edinburgh, as he’s hoping to open a restaurant there. I genuinely love Scotland the atmosphere, the scenery, and the people always seem so warm and friendly whenever I visit.

However, I do have some concerns. I’m Black British, and I have a daughter who will be starting secondary school around the time we move. Naturally, as a mum, I want to make sure she feels safe, supported, and accepted in her new environment.

I’d really like to hear honest experiences what is it like for Black families living in Edinburgh, especially when it comes to schools? Have you or your children experienced any racism, and how is it generally handled?

Also, my daughter is very passionate about track and field, so I’d love recommendations for secondary schools with strong athletics programs or good sports facilities. Any tips on clubs, teams, or supportive communities for young athletes would be amazing too.

Overall, I’m excited about the move, but I just want to make the best decision for my daughter and ensure she has a positive experience.

Thank you so much in advance 💛