Problems with husband
I’m feeling so distant from him………he seems always upset at me. Tries to push for sec all the time. Even after my clearance from the doctor it was still uncomfortable and he thought I was just making it up. Literally talks to me like I’m a piece of shit. He’s got so many girls in things shaking their asses on his instagram and I can’t have any guys on mine. I’m not the girl who has people he’s uncomfortable with on any social media. I’ve always respected his wishes. I try to get as much as I can done in the house and it’s never good enough. There’s so much more too. My stress is on maximum with him and I’m just not happy anymore!
Sorry for the rant! I just don’t know what to do?
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I dont know that id be telling you to hang in there personally. Id be telling you to make a run for it.
He sounds awful and manipulative. You deserve better
I would never tell someone on the internet what to do as I don’t have all the info based off of this post. It obviously isn’t a positive post. And as mentioned, you deserve more (with or without him).
I’ve seen my sister go through this with her partner of nearly 20 years. She’s miserable, has three kids, 2 with special needs, fourth in the way, living in a small house, one income, no freedom, no life, etc. She will never leave him because of those kids and she feels trapped.
My only questions in situations like this are - do you think he’ll change? Do you love him still?
Because if the answer to both of those are no, there’s no point in trying to make this work and becoming trapped like my sister. Relationships take time, energy and work. They are worth the work if the other person also puts in the same work. I’m not saying people can’t change. But from my experience, they usually don’t.
Whatever you end up doing, I’m sorry you’re going through this.
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