The bra is overflowing!

Y’all listen! I’ve been relying on sports bras, bralettes, or going braless. None of my bras fit. I ordered some custom nudes (specifically for melanated girlies) in preparation for my maternity photoshoot and called myself doing my own measurements. Everything arrived on time, but they still didn’t fit 😭. I used to work in fashion design so I know what I’m doing but clearly I needed help. So my husband and I stopped by Victoria’s Secret to get a sizing done. For years I’ve been a solid 33C or 34B. That lady said I was now a 34D! Yet when she got a bra in that size for me to double check I felt like a smoked sausage because it was hella small. So she brought me a 36D and that fit just bearly clinging to the last hooks. Y’all I’m now a 38D! 😳 And I’m only now entering the third trimester! Now I know why nothing fits! Do yourself a favor and go get sized! And maybe not just once, but every time that bra starts overflowing!

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I’m around 3 months postpartum and feel like breastfeeding has affected me more than I expected. I love the bond with my little boy, but my sex drive has disappeared, and sometimes I feel like I’ve lost a bit of myself. 🥺

I’d love to hear from other mums who’ve experienced this!

💗 Did your sex drive come back while breastfeeding, or only after stopping?

💗 Did you feel more emotional or unlike yourself?

💗 Did anything help, or did things improve naturally over time?

I love breastfeeding and don’t necessarily want to stop, but I’d love to feel more like myself again. ❤️

Any advice or experiences would be really appreciated! 🫶🏼

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Health visitor said to reduce so it doesn't ruin appetite for food but just wondering how often others are doing it. Thanks x

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TIA x

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