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what would you do?

my boyfriend and I started dating July 2024. Our baby was born October 2025. I’m five months postpartum. Obviously it was unexpected, but we made the decision to do this together and he bought us a house that we now live in.

it is so bad here. We were arguing a lot before we had a baby, but it was like still a lot of love and passionate, just couldn’t communicate and immature. We said we’d make it work and went to counseling, it didn’t help. But our baby’s born now and we live together. I think we’re both dealing with adjusting to this new life, trying to get over the past, living together; he has resentment about rushing into this. I have resentment about his past mistakes. We don’t really get along, or even if we’re not arguing, it’s this weirdness in the air like tension anxiety feeling. he also went cold on me, he used to be the one like obsessed with making the relationship work and now I am while he pulls away. he works from home and I’m a stay at home. Mom and every day is pretty much the same here. It’s a cycle of like boredom and nerves and I don’t even know it just so fucking weird. Everything feels forced. I’m really in love with him and always dreamed of a family, and everything worked out with his job, the house, everything. It’s like everything fell into place with the guy im in love with, but all that’s left is us getting along.

we had a talk today and he said that timing of everything was just a lot. And he’s unhappy and knows I am too. Because we don’t get along, and we don’t even get along with each other’s family and friends too much (we’ve vented to them about our relationship) so it’s weird that no one really comes over. That it’s uncomfortable life. I agree, but also the only way to get better is to decide to together. everything he said is valid, but it hurts because I’m on the other end where I can feel him distant, and just the energy that he doesn’t really want to be together anymore. But he tells me he still does. That he loves me but we dont get along and everything’s so weird he doesnt know what to do anymore. And netiher do I. But that he doesn’t think we’ll last with the way things are going. I don’t know l what to do. We need to make changes. I don’t think this is worth leaving at least not yet, but I don’t even know how to try.