No nap daytime routine

My toddler has recently dropped their nap and I'm struggling a bit with the afternoons! We usually head out in the morning to an activity/shops/see friends etc. then get home by 1ish. Unfortunately I can't really go anywhere in the afternoon as by 2/3pm he would just fall asleep in the car and they go to bed at midnight!! Prior to the nap drop we would normally take the dog out for a walk in the afternoon, but he's just so grumpy it makes it difficult..

So that leaves us at home from 1pm - bedtime at 7pm. I'm just struggling to fill the day without feeling like we're just sitting around all day. He's a very active toddler so isn't really into drawing/crafts etc. It helps a lot when we can get in the garden for a few hours.

Any tips or ideas welcome!!

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