Rose toy

This might be TMI but if anyone has one and is willing to help I’d be so grateful because now I feel like I’ve wasted money.

I don’t know if I’m doing the rose toy right. It’s very strong but I don’t mind that, I have achieved really strong orgasms from it before yet it takes ages for me to find what works. So long that my hand is cramping and I just want to give up. It’s so frustrating as well because if I finally find the right spot and have to stop for a bit then I can’t find that damn spot again even if I’ve not changed my actual body positioning.

Then there has been times where I felt pain from it. My toy is also super super loud and I’m not sure if that’s normal. I read online that if it’s loud it means it’s not enclosed around the clit and you need to put more pressure on it or reposition it yet if I put more pressure it can hurt and if I reposition it’s still loud. I even like find my clit with my fingers and then angle it up and then once it feels like it’s enclosed I’ll move it around to find my sweet spot and it’ll literally like come un suctioned.

Is it me or my toy? I wanted to use this for a while as the vibrator I have now is a load of wack as well. I would like to be able to use it when having sex with my partner too as when I use it with him and it makes this loud like lawn mower kind of sound(it really is so loud)it always makes me feel awkward and I have to spend ages re-adjusting.

Please help a girl out 😭

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