Finding things tough

Going through a real tough time at the moment. Baby is 4 months old and naps can be a struggle ..won't let me put them down and if I do it is only a 20/30 minute nap. Also with the bad weather I feel I can't get out for walk etc. feeling lost...my husband works quite long days and my mum is great but all my other friends don't have family or are working etc. Also miss the routine of work etc.

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I’m sorry you’re feeling like this. Your feelings are completely valid. I’m also going through a battle with naps with my little one, I think it’s all part of the regression.
Can you join any local groups? The local libraries also run things for babies. Have you used peanut to connect with any mums in your area?
The weather should also be improving soon which will help getting out for walks. ❤️

We are also struggling to get in longer naps than 30mins so definitely feel you!! Not sure if it’s all part of the sleep regression as we’re struggling at night as well. Definitely try and make some pals on peanut or by going to classes. Having a couple things booked in each week helps me feel like I have some structure and also a sense of achievement at the end of the week that I miss from working! Take care x

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