I have really bad PTSD & Anxiety surrounding BLW. My 8mo is ready but I'm not. I don't want to hold her back.
I watched her have CPR twice while she waited for open heart surgery and the trauma of her 4 month fight from birth has me in a chokehold.
I know bigger foods are safer, easily squished between fingers ect
But what about things like tuna mayo? Mashed up flakes?
Salmon? (Am I not right that fish is a possible allergy caution food?)
I know broccoli and Carrot, sweet potatoe ect but is there anything else
What is the majority census of least likely choking food?
She's managed baby melty puffs, baby wafers, baby biscotti all fine...
(I only gave her these things because they say they melt in the mouth)
> I have health visitor coming out in 2 weeks to LITERALLY hold my hand and be present while I make my 8mo her first proper BLW meal of finger foods
> I am booking a baby and child first aid course with st johns ambulance for the 9th May
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We do eggs and cut into strips, toast with unsalted butter but cut the crusts off. Avocado strips. Banana is a good one, fruit pancakes cut into strips feel free to message me and I can give you some more ideas on what’s worked for us xx

Eggy fingers, pasta (well cooked and a bit soggy!) Muffins, all the veggies.

Bannana pancakes , overcooked pasta like the spiral one with veggies , soft parsnip / carrots etc . Muffins with egg , cheese and any other cooked veggies or fruits.
Soft bread ( I use sourdough more healthy) no crust with mashed avo and cream cheese on top .

Also in regards to the choking , if it makes you feel better , I’ve had two baby’s and my first choked so many times like 4-5 times because he would scoff food without chewing . But it’s soo easy when you know what to do I promise . It’s always come up straight away after back blows .
My second he’s choked a few times here and there but manages to gag it up most the time .
I do have a life vac which I keep in my kitchen , don’t think I’d ever need to use it as honestly it’s so easy to get it unstuck for babies .
With my first I used to do soft foods when I was alone so breakfast and lunch , then baby led weening in evening when my husband was there it made me feel more at ease .

Download Solids Start app as that will show you how to give food at different ages from 6-12 months old. What is an allergen and I think it also tells you how to cook it x

Hope you and baby are ok 🩷
Fish is an allergen but is a good/easy one, mine have both loved it and found it easy to eat
Crumpets /pancakes have also gone down well also pizza toast cut into strips once allergens are tested!
My girl LOVES broccoli and strawberries so has them regularly and I feel like are easy to do x

That sounds super hard. Don’t be too hard on yourself, your baby is just 8 months. Are you giving her mashed food? Like Ella’s pouches or yogurt and things like that?
I was and am also very scared of choking. Ive given my baby banana, tomatoes, mango, muffins, mashed potatoes with butter and fish mashed into it and some more things.
So far tomatoes cut into 4 wedges are his favorite and mango. I give him the mango pit and he sucks on it and takes bites from it. I take the tomato away when he’s sucked on it and there’s just skin left or it’s all falling apart.
I find he spits bananas out. I think it’s because the bites he takes are too large. But it’s reassuring seeing him spit out things he isn’t sure off.
It also helped me to be with other moms while they were feeding their babies the same age. So then i saw their babies eating and felt safe giving my baby the same.
Good luck.

My 7 month old has just been referred to a paediatrician due to swallowing issues and choking while eating a drinking since birth. He does really well on the Ella’s kitchen pouches and anything that is soft and easily swallowable. He has had little bits of cod as it’s quite flaky, some finely shredded chicken with a roast dinner and the melts and biscotti snacks you mentioned. Very small bits of cake and the tiniest bit of chocolate for Easter. Remember your little one will gag as she gets used to the new textures and tastes. Remember gagging is noisy, your baby can turn bright red with it and bring up some food. Gagging is how babies prevent themselves from chocking and is normal as they learn how much they can eat and swallow. Choking is silent. Your little one will turn blue and won’t be breathing. There are videos done by the St John’s ambulance service that teach you what to do if your baby is choking and might be worth checking out between now and your first aid course.
My very almost 2 year old has started acting quite emotional when his bum is being changed. He used to hate getting his nappy changed anyway, however he’s been really good the last 2 months at getting his own nappy, laying down etc but then when it comes to actually wiping his bum/privates…he gets REALLY upset and cries/forces his legs shut so I can’t clean up properly. I’ve had a look as best as he’d let me and there’s no redness or any cuts etc.
Is this normal? I have to hold both his legs open and basically fight him to get to the areas I need to get to. I try not to make it harder than it is for him so I am careful and try my best to comfort him while it’s happening. But what the heck is this all about? I was worried someone had hurt him but he’s never not with me so it’s impossible. I just don’t know where it’s coming from and why it’s so upsetting for him. Apart from this he is a great child who barely ever cries (unless he doesn’t get his way lol) but he can have a fall/cut and will be smiling and laughing.
When he’s in the bath and I wash his area (with water & not hard at all just a little wipe, nothing that will hurt) he also doesn’t seem comfortable with that either and tries to run away, he doesn’t get as upset it’s more of a game to him and sometimes laughs. It’s all very confusing. My partner says it’s a sensitive area anyway and while he’s young it might just be extra sensitive to touch. Any boys mums who can help? 🥲
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😅 i feel like i dont see any 16 year old girls anymore trying to make little extra cash or just moms helping other moms out.
Just me who'd be happy to help a mom out just so she can have her 3 hours to go peacefully grocery shopping or have a break. Its tough to be a mommy. And at the same recover after birth and needing that sleep.
Just me who has to choose between a shower, eating, sleeping or having a quick clean? What's your experience like ? 🥰

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I am starting solids for my baby is 6 months today bit confused if i can give her purees or just mashed texture food any advice?
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How many times a day are you trying solids? My pediatrician said to do 3 times a day. I thought at 6m once a day was more than enough??

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I'm really annoyed with nursery. They have lost our apron and kept brushing us off for 2 weeks and saying we have to speak to someone else. Or they simply say they don't know they weren't there to most things I ask. My little one has also started to really cry at drop off at beginning of week. This has been ongoing 3 weeks. Her key worker has changed to someone who is not in the same days she is, so 2/3 days. They also lost one of our bottles last week. About 3 weeks ago my little one has tights on. I hadn't realised the elastic had gone on them so they kept falling down. We went for a walk after pick up and every 30 seconds I saw she was struggling to move around and the tights were bothering her. When I went to pull them up there was no nappy or knickers on her! Her little bum was out. I was so mad at them. When I asked them about it they said they don't know. But I'm disappointed as they took off her nappy in morning and didn't put her pants on. So she must have gone the whole day that way and nobody noticed?! Then last week as we were leaving I saw her cardigan lying on the side and when I picked it up it had paint all over it. They don't use water based paint and it never comes out! When I showed the room leader he said he doesn't understand as my little one didn't paint today. As if that's an explanation. My little one later told me she did it. So they have left the paint out and let kids go to it unattended then.
I'm just really really frustrated about it all.
Are these all small things?
Is everyone having these problems and it's just how it is?
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Hi mamas! Please can you tell me what your 10 month olds are playing with at the moment? My son will be going 10 months at Christmas and it's hard for me to imagine what kind of toys he'll be ready for, even though I've been here before 😂 Tysm 🫶

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