Give me an advice like a big sister

My husband is scared to post or allow me post our baby on social media and just enjoy motherhood publicly online . our marriage was not accepted by our parents we went ahead and did it anyways cause we loved each other and they all cut us off but we know they stalk my page . It’s been 2 years and our child is 7 months he put that fear in me to be scared to post the baby hide my pregnancy also .

Right now I’m going through postpartum I hear my baby crying even when he’s asleep sometimes I cry myself for hours my face gets so swollen and painful why? Because since I gave birth my husband has refused to initiate intimacy but aside this he’s doing everything 💯 yall in 7 months we had sex 3 x I stopped initiating so no sex 🥲.
I have no one just my child I’m an immigrant he is American refused to file for my greencard after we got married in August 2025 he said he’s broke and I’m a SAHM

He hides he’s phone so much I confronted him asked to see his phone and he refused we dragged the phone I hurt my hand then I got so angry I tried to leave he he locked the door after me 😂 I came back cause he took my phone and my baby I banged the door he said be careful the police will come and you will go to jail like this man has my name tattooed on his body ..! We was good and the baby changed us .. he said people don’t like us or support our marriage and if they they we know have a child they would harm our child spiritually like I’m confused

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Girl Mom Friends!

Looking to find a few people to chat about our babies 😅 I’m 25 ftm! My daughter is 7m

Do people really want to make friends?

I’ll like a honest conversation please.

Do people really want to make friends or they think they want to? I’ve had so many of my chats left unreplied even when it shows the blue read tick.

If my profile or face doesn’t interest you, a kinder letdown than ignoring is better.

It’s kinda frustrating

Partner has no sex drive!

So my partner and I have only had sex 4 times since I was about 5 months pregnant. I am now almost 4 months postpartum, and it’s driving me crazy because he won’t talk to me or tell me what the issue is so obviously I think it’s about me! My postpartum depression is already so bad and thinking it’s because of me makes me feel worse! I’ve even told him this and it hasn’t changed much.

Was I rude here? Gym etiquette.

Yesterday I was trying out a new machine, the leg press I’ve avoided it because I’m a little scared of using it and breaking my legs.

Anyways, it took me a minute to figure out how to use it. I wasn’t sure if I had good form so I did a very light test set to start then recorded a few more reps to reassure myself. I don’t like to take long on anything so I did feel bad taking extra time here but this lady was apparently waiting right behind me, arms crossed sitting on a different machine watching me. I got up to put a challenging working weight on and she just assumed I was done. She didn’t ask she just got in my persona space to whisper to leave the weights and tried to sit down. She caught me off guard and I asked her what she said three times brace she was very quiet and had a thick accent. But she was just assuming I was don she didn’t ask me she just said leave the weights on three times. I ended up saying I don’t know what you’re talking about I’m not finished. Exactly that.

Now I feel embarrassed. There are three of these machines too. One was empty but it’s a horizontal one so not exactly the same but still similar. I feel like you’d never catch someone doing this at the barbells. I get watched and rushed almost every time I use a machine but then I’ll be waiting ages (basically finishing my whole session waiting on someone to get out of the abductor machines). Idk I’m just frustrated, embarrassed and tired of the rude people at my gym.

Mom friends!

Looking for mom friends! Perfectly okay if it’s just texting as I’m a ftm going back to work soon, with 4 boys and my husband is a farmer and I live in South Dakota. Been dealing with PPD which is a first with this being my 5th son but having a hard time with depression and anxiety since one of my sons was killed and it’s making everything after having my youngest hit me like a freight train. So just trying to make new friends and feel more like a person than a human milking machine.

Can someone please help me explain this to someone in a summarized way

I have a friend who is a mom and who is very out going and I’ve only known her for a year and likes to join places to volunteer and just loves to socialize overall.

Me I love being a parent
Me and my kid do everything together my daughter has done more things then I’ve ever done in my life 🤣 but I’m not too fond of socializing with other parents and being involved in stuff unless my child wants me too

I probably came off as I don’t like people
But it’s really not that.
I always meet people if I like the person then yes I’ll make them my friend because an actual connection in there but I don’t go out of my way to being social for my child.