going out after having baby

I am struggling to go out with my friends after having bub i feel like i can’t differentiate myself and my mum self anymore and always end up not having the best time, advice pls would be great

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I think no matter what ull always be in mum mode. From experience everytime i go out even for a couple hrs im worrying about how my baby is and whether they have been fed or if they r screaming, basically just making sure they r well. I also have to watch what im doing like going out clebrsting anything im like i cant have too much to drink i have to be okay for the baby . I think with time and support it will get better.

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Take your time but definitely go out! Even if you’re in sweats, messy bun & just walk around at Walmart or something. The little smiles or “hello” from people is so welcoming & needed!

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I definitely got know interest in going out with friends. Even before baby it was a chore. Tell them straight. Let’s not people please. I am more interested in house work and catching up with sleep.

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Serious friends?

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Why are yall on this app when 95% of u are rude and dry… this app to make friends if ur not trynna make friends stop wasting everyone’s time go be miserable somewhere else.

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