Getting jiggy with child about

My partner will try to get jiggy when our 4 year old is around. Ive told him multiple times it is a huge turn off knowing they could run in and catch us but it seems to fall of deaf ears!!!!
What others feelings on this?

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…..like he would do it in front of your child?

I mean, hubby and i squeeze in a butt smack or a grab when in a different room but nothing that lasts more than a second or 2. We squeeze in the making out and adult time during bedtime and naps lol

But if you arent into it thats ok too.
If it literally turns you off, you tell him no, and he keeps doing it anyway? That speaks to a bigger issue about consent.

What does “getting jiggy” mean? Of course nudity and sex is an absolute no. But we both feel it’s important to model a healthy loving relationship for our kids, and would totally kiss and cuddle and tease (appropriately) while our kids are around. More so, even.

But also I second what Victoria said about consent

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We’ve had no issues with the nursery until this but I wonder if maybe I’m overreacting about it?

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