How much should she be eating??

Hi! I’m a ftm and I am so lost on how much my daughter (9.5 months) should be eating? I’m a little on the spectrum and schedules are my best friend but now that she’s starting solids her schedule is changing and I have no idea what her new schedule should be like… how many bottles how much solids? My husband says we are over feeding her; but idk..
Here’s her schedule right now:
7:30a wake/eat 6-8 oz
9 breakfast
9:30-11 nap
11:30 eat 4-6 oz
1 maybe a snack
3:30 eat 6 oz
4:30-6 nap
6:30 bath and story
7:30 eat 8 oz
8 bedtime
10:30-11 eat 4 oz (but our pediatrician said we can cut this out and only offer 4 bottles when we start offering two meals a day but we have to increase those bottles and offer a second and possibly third meal a day)
I tried googling it and it’s all mixed responses.. help a girl out!

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